First One Night Stand
 

Hey guys,

This is my first LR so i'd appreciate any tips or critisim after as i would like to improve my story telling as well as my game.

It was a Friday night and a friend of mine rang me to say he got 2 tickets to a gig in the acadamy, too many dj's. I said why not I'd go out and enjoy myself. We got there and the place was full of HB's, HB 8's 9's 10's, you name it they we're there. I though to myself that this was my friends night I wouldnt game and just have a few drinks with him. So as the night went on I got progressevly got more drunk and it struck me that we should be out gaming.

We ended up in a club in dublin and I opened the first set I seen. A Hb 7 and her friend were standing at the bar.

Dublin: Can you Irish dance?!
Hb 7: No
Amog: I can
Dublin: show me what you got

The conversation went on longer for that but that was the jist of it. The amog kept trying to show me up but I froze out the Hb and she was on her own, I had befriended the Amog. The Hb then was all over me trying to get me to dance with her. I made her qualify herself to me with qualification statements, but I also jumped through one or two of her hoops not thinking straight.

Club closed and the 4 of us went for food. I was getting on well with her Amog friend. It turned out that our houses were in the same direction and I said we'd share a taxi. Her Amog friend came in the taxi with us and my friend left.

We ended up back at their appartments and he went into another friends. Isolation. Perfect.
She invited me in to show me the place. This is where it got tricky. It got passionate in the elevator on the way up but when we got there she boiled the kettle and made tea. She said to me that it was getting late and I suggested that we go lie down.

We got to the bedroom and she changed as I got undressed. And then it happened, in the blink of an eye... LMR. My mind went blank.

Hb: I dont usually do this
Dublin: Neither do I
HB: Ok lets just stop

We lay there and I was kicking myself thinking of what to do. We fell asleep and woke a few min's later doing the same thing. Finding ourselves having the same, "I dont usually do this" conversation. Eventually we finally did F-close and I left for work the that morning.

As I analised the night in my head last night I realised that I hadnt built enough comfort with her in the first place. If I had of built enough comfort I wouldnt have gotten so much LMR and a simple freeze out would have done the job. You guy's got any opinions?

regards,

Declan "Dublin"

Nice one. Bet Too Many DJ's kicked ass too.

By not pleading when she said, "Let's just stop" i woulda thought, after a F-Close, that was a successful freeze out.

What I like to do, if i think its on, i'll pattern in a story before we go back to hers...

"So i just decided to bite the bullet and go back to uni. I've been playing with the idea for a while but I spose it really just comes down to making that decision to just dive in, you know? I don't know if you've ever, thought about something that you know you really wanna do but then make up all kinds of reasons not to - but when you just, stop, and really listen, you get that knowing feeling that it is what you want (anchor) and just go for it."

This isn't a replacement for LMR but usable at other points once the sex starts to become implied, I woulda dropped anchor when she suggested a lie down. LMR to mop up but you should need much less if it worked well.

Good job dood, game on!

Getting the nuts and bolts of the language patterns down is key. The guy who taught me was fucking epic though. I'd talk to him, leave the conversation and not remember a word he'd said unless he reminded me. :]

I'd prefer not to say as he has his own training consultancy now and has understandbly distanced himself from the Game. I was really able to synergise everything i'd learned with a teacher though. I owes him much.

An article sounds cool, anything particular in mind?

Noobs guide eh, sounds fun, I'd like that, cheers.

Will hammer together a draft and send it you, see what you think.

I'd like an NLP guide please. I have a lot of work to do in that area and with myself - Pacha is the best NLP person I know and he's threatened to beat it into me.

WHAT HE SAID ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


obviously im new to all this, but NLP techniques (which i more interesting as they have more practical use outside the realms of seduction) I find absolutely fascinating.

One of those situations where we all go ... "hmmmmm interesting" (in a food for thought of how we would feel kind of way) I would imagine, but from the looks of the post.

Sound close, overcame the LMR obstacle and got a result... Couldn't ask for more than that, nice job.

Ambitious