Xylo out and about
 

Figure I'll start a bit of a journal, seems to be the done thing..keep check of how i'm doing and always good to practice a bit of reflection. I won't do it otherwise.

3/2/13

Day game..next few months will focus on day game following 'Rules of the game' structure.

Met up with framejacker and blueeyedevil, went for a coffee, got to know each other a bit..discuss why we're pathetic failures with women etc haha..nah, seem like cool chaps. This in itself was a nice step into the unknown, meeting up with total strangers, whom I share common goals with, will be good to push each other and give feedback etc.

Todays challenge was to speak to 5 random people, we could technically say anything, but I felt asking bland questions (time etc) was a little tame, so tried to push myself a little.

Spoke to a few shop assistants and older women, very basic stuff, but always tried to put a little personality and charisma into it.

When I split from the guys, I actually spoke to a hot girl in a clothes shop commenting how weird mens fashion has gone now. She seemed a little off guard and ignored me for a second/couldn't think of anything to say..but eventually replied with a bland comment...5 minutes later whilst walking round the shop I seen her looking at me!..which just goes to show even the lamest comments in the world will get you noticed!

Reflection

Easing into it, i'm looking forward to pushing myself with challenging missions. I suppose today was useful in itself just getting to meet the two guys. Not really much to reflect on, I guess there'll be a lot more stuff to mull over when I do some more challenging missions.

Overall good start I guess, I'm going to continue to constantly make small talk with strangers just to get me used to 'opening' people I don't know.

Yeah just ease yourself into it if your only starting daygame, your on the right track, even if it is only the first of many hurdles.