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Default 21-02-2021, 07:57 PM

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1. In terms of how much I want them, yes

2. Yes

3. Compatibility and incredible sex

4. Yes
Then you’re probably ready for LTR then if she feels the same way then go for it.

Honestly one woman who gives you a huge buzz and excitement each time you meet is worth more than 3-4 okish ones.
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Default 21-02-2021, 08:45 PM

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Then you’re probably ready for LTR then if she feels the same way then go for it.
You must have missed that bit mate. I would go for it, but problem is, the girl in question doesn't feel the same way.


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Default 21-02-2021, 11:04 PM

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You must have missed that bit mate. I would go for it, but problem is, the girl in question doesn't feel the same way.
In that case then you’re doing the right thing creating more options for yourself and distracting away from her. End of the day it’s about showing mental strength and resilience in your successes as much as it is the blow outs. You should be proud of what you’ve achieved and just enjoy her. Who knows maybe she will want you to be her boyfriend in the future. Emotions of attachment are normal and shouldn’t be looked down upon as weakness or frustrations and when you’re going through a lot of girls they are bound to pop up
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Default 02-04-2021, 08:24 PM

Had a date arranged for tonight, an attractive blonde MILF (just my usual) who initially approached me on a dating app last weekend.

Long story short, we soon swapped numbers and had been talking all week, with seemingly solid plans for this evening. I was to drive up to her town, about 20 miles away, and have a few drinks at hers, undoubtedly sleeping together. Or so I thought.

We last text each other this morning, both affirming how much we were looking forward to meeting tonight. Then when I finished work at 6pm I opened my phone to text her and she had blocked me. Vanishing without a trace.

There is absolutely zero explanation for this act. There's not a single thing I could have possibly done or said to be responsible for her suddenly disappearing, since everything was totally cool through text, and in terms of us getting on with each other.

Strange AF.


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Default 20-04-2021, 06:33 AM

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Got a bit burned by this situation...
This girl I'd been torn over a couple of months ago popped back up last night on Snapchat. She had removed me or deleted her own account or whatever, because somehow I just got a random notification saying "(Girl) has accepted your request" even though I hadn't sent one.

It was of course, a bit of a surprise. Very soon after, she then put a cryptic quote on her story that said " If you understand how frequently people cope by projecting, you would learn to take absolutely nothing personally" and this was 100% posted for my attention.

I then looked at "projecting" a bit, and I have to say it's an interesting psychological theory / concept. One I'll look into further, for personal interest. It could be much bigger than we realise, since it's generally unconscious. Deep shit.

In terms of me not taking her withdrawal personally, I didn't. At least not from the perspective of it being purposely done to hurt me. But even though I don't take it personally in that sense, it was very personal to me because it hit me quite a dig, so is that still me taking it personally?

As for her "projecting", it's not like that explains much. It's an extremely broad term, and could mean projecting one of, or many things. So I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to make of this piece of information other than there's a somewhat vague explanation for her disappearance during a time in which I wanted her more than ever.

I don't know what will come of this and I don't know if I want anything to come of this. Perhaps she's just come back to give me this indirect explanation and she'll be off again. Perhaps she's better now and wants to reconcile. But even though in the back of my mind I secretly hoped and imagined she'd be back at some stage, I've grieved for this relationship. I've felt and expelled the hurt already, and even if there was a reconciliation, a big question on my mind is, would I feel the same way I did in the lead up to Christmas when I was all besotted and emotional about her. It's like, sadly that important moment has passed.

Anyways, just thought I'd follow this story up with the latest unexpected chapter.


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Default 26-04-2021, 07:39 AM

Spent last night with a sexy Latino Beauty Therapist, from Brazil. She's 39 but being in the beauty industry, she looks great.

I only matched with her on the Bumble on Saturday. Got her number that evening, didn't text her until Sunday evening, swapped a few voice notes, then met up.

She told me in one of the voice notes that she'd just had her vaccine and was sitting in her yard having a few beers, finishing with "Do you wanna come over?"

After kissing a few times she begun to get very excited, appearing to not give a shit about any of her neighbours seeing us. Although that made me a tiny bit uncomfortable, so I suggested we go inside. She lives in quite a fancy neighbourhood.

She told me her 21 year old daughter was inside sleeping because she does night shift, and mentioned my place. I said cool, lets go to mine. So she grabbed a few beers to take with her and off we went. I was driving.

She has that sexual allure you imagine all sexy Latino women have, and that made the sex quite hot. She was very loud though, almost too loud. I'm on the second floor but there was a crowd of people outside for a bit and they were cheering and whistling lol I'm not certain it was for us, but I'm pretty sure it was.

Anyways, it was a nice unexpected end to the week.

I'm intrigued as to how hot the daughter is.


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Default 01-05-2021, 11:17 PM

Just a quick note.

My coquette. The girl I was heartbroken about a few months ago. Who I haven't seen in 5 months. Is in a cab on her way to mine.

I'm a little nervous, but I've had a few drinks, so it'll be ok.

I'll update further, tomorrow.


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Default 02-05-2021, 05:21 PM

I had hot sex with my coquette lady.

It's weird. I don't really know how I'm supposed to feel.

I think I'm indifferent, whilst at the same time embracing her beauty... but without feelings.

I'll see her again. Perhaps I still love her. I don't know.


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Default 08-05-2021, 02:45 AM

I feel the need to document this..

So after last weekend, me and my coquette lady who broke my heart planned to spend next Friday together, (tonight). I was excited about it all week and we texted a few times during the week. She affirmed yesterday she was still free Friday and I said cool tell me what time you'd like me to come and collect you. Then this afternoon she told me she was meeting her cousin for dinner and she could meet me afterwards (she meets this cousin almost every time she's free).

The thing is, she never met me tonight, and it annoyed me more than I care to admit. This isn't the first time she'd met this cousin and was supposed to meet up with me but didn't. I'm thinking, why would you say "I'm free Friday" when it seems I wasn't set to be your first priority that evening?

The main reason I'm expressing this is because, here I am, after spending one night together a week ago after a 5 month hiatus, allowing myself to become emotional about this girl. I haven't figured out why this feeling arose, but it could be one of, or a multitude of, quite a few things...

First off, I'm definitely annoyed that it was supposed to be a date and then all of a sudden someone else takes priority.

I could be jealous that she chose to spend all night with her cousin instead of eventually coming to meet me.

I might be irritated that I have experienced this before with her and it's happened again.

It could be that I've felt and expelled heartbreak over this girl already and here I am feeling annoyed with her again.

Perhaps all of the above.

Maybe I'm overthinking, but I can't help but wonder if this is all part of some long-game where she's sneaked back into my life then start playing the push pull game again? I guess I would find that out in the near future through how things go.

Ultimately, I'm happy to see her again, but I don't want that to be at the cost of more hurt (actually, it seems I don't care about the hurt). I'm strong as fuck, but with this girl, let's say if she turned around and told me she fucked a guy last night, it would affect me intensely. So that must mean I love her or some shit right?

Life is interesting, that's for sure.


I would be particularly interested to hear the thoughts of my friend Kowalski on this.


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Default 09-05-2021, 06:30 PM

To be honest there's probably not a lot more to say other than I'm perhaps a bit of a glutton for punishment

Oh well, something about this girl just hits me differently than all the others.

And she's the hottest sex I've ever had.

YOLO


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