Still been going out a lot but I can't be arsed with the diary thing. Something weird happened last night though.

Took this danish bird home last night, was pretty awesome banter, we actually hung out for most of the day after. Really cool time.

Something fucking weird happened though. Earlier on when I'm in the bar some pua guy stops me and says hi. I don't recognise him but he says he's a mate of a guy who I used to roll with for a bit, I reckon I must have bumped into him once before. I small talk with the guy a bit and head off, don't see him for the rest of the night.

Later on though when I'm back at mine in bed with this girl she's like a little hesitant before we have sex. I ask what's up and she show's me a text from that same guy. I went a bit like

'Hey, get home safe. And don't have sex with that kid Tom, he has AIDs'

I'm completely like what the fuck and explain that I barely even know him. Later on after we've had sex a couple of times, I make a joke about it and we start talking about how fucking stupid it was, she tells me about how he got her number and she always sees him about with three lads chatting to birds and trying a bit too hard. Anyway we reckon it would be funny if I texted him off her phone. I was just annoyed by it so I sent

'Tom here. You've only met me twice. If you're going to be salty say that to my face next time prick.'

Later he just texts back

'hahahahaha god bless'

Now I don't know what the fuck he was trying to do here. It came across as some weird attempt at being funny while actually trying to fuck with me. Some people who are into this annoy the shit out of me.

FFS! That text from that randomer is bang out of order.

He needs a good kicking.

You got the girl, got laid, you won. But in the weird world of LMR that text could have kabooshed the entire thing.

Your title says he's a PUA, but he's not, as it's "bros before hos'". So he's just a cunt.

id have text saying, I couldnt help fucking him, aids or not the guy got mad skillz... (then maybe mention how u learned everythin from me, jus sayin)

It's fucked up isn't it. They really shouldn't be letting twelve-year-old kids into these bars

God, what a great wingman he'd make.

shouldn't we as members of the human race have respect and offer moral decency to eachother?

I think what it comes down to is this. For some people doing this they think. 'Girls like guys that I perceive as arseholes instead of liking me, therefore I must act like an arsehole to get girls'. This idea gets mixed with the aggressive ideas, OTT concepts and weird stories you run into in this community, which are normally misinterpreted by new guys. What you end up with is socially clueless PUA fans running round clubs, being creepy and overly grabby with girls, yelling and being as obnoxious as possible.

The fact is though, that will not help you get laid. All it does is turn you into a douche. And even if it did get you laid, I'd rather be a decent guy and not get laid as much than be a prick to people just so I can put my dick in a hole.

As for that guy, he's not worth helping and he's not really worth smacking and risking getting barred from one of my regular places. Provided he stays out of my way from now on I don't really give a shit.

Thats fucked up. But what you have to remember is guys are like this. They're competing for girls and they don't give a shit about ethics.

My mates are arseholes when it comes to pulling, my close mates who know nothing about game. Example - we're in a bar and i'm chating to this girl, i get her number, nothing major, and you think he'd be pleased for me like wd dude but no he starts putting me down - she wasn't that nice, you were talking to her weird blah blah. Or i'm out in a club, this girl likes me and she's dancing with me, my mate starts trying to pull her. Or were in a queue and I'm chatting to some birds and my mate barges through us all to get attentiion and act like an arsehole.

So, i had a moan about it once - wa wa wa why can't you just be happy for me and not act like a nob? But, it seems to be inherent that guys are competing for girls and putting you down, or fucking things up for you subconciusly they just get the tribal urge as they think they can pull the girl or whatever.

also, people are weird from all walks of life.

Solution: don't go to clubs with these chodes -- you've already raised it with them

People like that bring down your gaming energy

As they are good mates, you can meet up with them away from an "on the pull" enviornment