I think I know what you mean.

Before I got into this whateverthefuckitis, I did used to say things that was like a question but said in a way that was more like this is how it is. Without properly realising what I was doing tho so I'd not always get the chick, despite there being plenty of interest, I now realise

No. Every situation is different. She hadn't reached the buying temperature yet. To be hyper efficient, why wait your stated 20 mins and not just start on every chick with Apocolapse Opener?

she was into my vibe but not enough... she did not yet have the "fuck me" eyes

trying to game her into a convo about what is the most naughty thing you've ever done (LEADING TO our dirty sexual stories) failed due to her cutting the fucking thing off (the convo, not my knob)

[Sexy Timewaster tries to blatantly mock trip-up a person walking past]
Rebus: "so are you a naughty girl?"
Sexy Timewaster: "ohhh.."
Rebus: "are you a naughty girl? You look naughty to me..."
Sexy Timewaster: "no I'm a good girl!"

Obv. this sort of shit ("I'm a good girl") can be part of the tease that STILL leads to her legs wide open, but she wasn't yet at buying temperature for "whats happening then?" or whatever play needed

dunno what all that above means?

The 20 mins was basically a way of saying "MOVE FASTER" i mite be sat with a girl a few hours before i say lets go, maybe im enjoying being out

or maybe im flitting between friends & a girl

or maybe i dont wanna go home & ill say... Giz ur number and we will go out.

its all situation dependant... but if we described every possible outcome on every thread it would get a bit samey.

bottom line is, dont "Spend" 45 mins 'trying' to nail a girl

spend 45 mins being yourself, having fun, not caring whether ur gonna fuck her or not coz ur not that assed either way... then when u feel its time to go have the balls to say

Im a guy, this is what i want, give me it... if she doesnt agree...

so what? bye then!... Next.

Nicely put. Live for the moment and relish the interactions you have with girls. They are to be enjoyed, lay or no lay.

You should never get frustrated with yourself for not getting there. Just relax, it's all supposed to be fun remember.

The big problem is you see this as a waste of time, and you're not willing to learn from the others. It's never a waste of time, learn from the wins, learn from the losses.

Just as a side note: Phil's night-closer has worked for me on 1st dates. I originally learnt it from a girl who used it on me on one. Nearly caught me off guard...

Point is, works both ways.

i think im in love with kowalski

DHV spike!!

Hahahaha

this is a "Phil Only " tactic that would general work with just you as thats how you are and its effective

I feel like I would get face palmed doing it.

And if I was subtle doing it I would appear creepy as girls know I want to fuck them

If you feel like it's creepy, then it will come across as creepy.

It's more high-risk, but more effective at screening out girls who aren't down to fuck (if you don't have the patience)

to be honest mate, if i was to show you and you spent some time with me, you would get it. thing is i wouldnt be sayin that type of shit to girls nowdays coz i have a biznitch. However, as i said, next manc meet up ill come out & u will no doubt catch me flirtin with everyone within my radius... so maybe u get a more visual idea of my persona.

thing is, its not about copying it, its about understanding what it is & why it works then using that knowledge to add it to your arsenal.