25th July

I went to some networking event for work on Deansgate in the city centre, and had to speak in front of 50 odd people for 60 seconds. I then mingle with loads of different business types, some of them hot ladies hehe. Good way of loosening me up for approaching some girls on the street afterwards I thought.

I left the venue around 3pm and headed out towards the tram station on Market Street.

Girl 1: Lovely Chinese girl with hot pants, long legs and high heels heading towards Deansgate. I had to follow, see what she’s up to, she leans against the bus stop. I go over.

Me: Excuse me I saw you walking past me before and I wanted to say I really like the way you look, you have a nice style.

She is kind of aloof but receptive. I ask her name, initiate a hand shake and ask her if she is at Uni. I tell her about the networking event, she tells me about Bejing. It took her a good 2 mins to break into any sort of smile. This didn’t bother me and we carried on chatting for around 5-6 mins. I then tell her I think she’s really nice and it would be nice to see her again. I prompt her to give me her number, she ends up giving me her Facebook. We carry on chatting for a bit more about football, then she reveals she has a boyfriend.

This doesn’t bother me so much, she was well into me flirting away, and we had a great interaction. As I walk away I thought she might be able to introduce me to some hot friends or halls of residence housemates. Either way, gonna msg her today on Facebook.

Girl 2: 3 mins later I clock another georgous Chinese girl walking along. I follow and signal her to take her headphones out.

Me: Excuse me, I saw you and think you look really nice and wanted to meet you.

She is cautious. I ask her name, shake her hand. I am conscious of trying to making her feel comfortable her, I smile a lot and am more laid back. It turned out she was only visiting Manchester, and was at uni in Huddersfield. We chat about both places for a minute or so. I then tell her I love her hair, and it suits her face. She starts to edge away towards the shop she was about to enter, and I let her go giving her another handshake, but holding on a little more to show her I like her.

Perhaps I should have pushed through the pain barrier more, but she was only here for the day… it could have been good practice though! This is becoming addictive now.

I freakin' love the way Asian girls dress sometimes.

This is good going on the day game! You're obviously enjoying just getting out there and talking to girls again now you're free.

Thing is though people are usually harder to stop in the street as they often have somewhere to be. I think it'll be hard for you to communicate you're not a weirdo (big assumption on my part, but roll with it) to them subconsciously. I expect that will come with practice.

Do you prefer this/have better results over night game?

Yeah man, it's a good buzz, for them too... sometimes (when they're not running away haha!). Sure they can be hard to stop, but this just takes practice. If you're unsure about what your doing, they'll see it a mile of. But so what?

As for coming across creepy, I'm finding it easy enough to communicate that I'm a nice friendly guy who just wants to get to know them. Smiling helps. I just treat it as a natural thing. I'm there checking out girls, and then I want to speak to them. This is fine.

Results-wise? I've not really been able to test this as I'm hammering the day game so much more. It's so much easier to get a girl on her own in the day, so this is a bonus, plus it costs no money, something I lack at the mo! I'm out 2 nights over the wkd in Manchester as Hustler's in town, so will have to get back to you on my night game skills... or lack of

26th July

I'm out in the city centre because it's sunny and there are definatley going to be girls out shopping!

Girl 1: Walking from Piccadilly Gardens towards the bus station. She rests on a bollard.

Me: Excuse I just saw you walking past me before and I wanted to come over and tell you I think you're beautiful
Her: Oh thanks (smiling)

I ask her name, she tells me, and then quickly goes on to tell me she has a boyfriend. I chat for a bit more, then leave her to it, 'enjoy the rest of your day in the sun'.

Girl 2: I'm in Specsavers picking up a prescription of contact lenses. Next to me is stood this pretty Japanese girl. I want to approach her, but it would be too awkward for her I imagined with the shopfloor listening. I left the shop, hovered outside for a bit, then I see her come out. She is walking fast so I have to chase her a bit!

Me: Excuse me, I just saw you in Specsavers before and wanted to tell you I think you're beautiful.
Her: oooh thanks, that's a nice suprise.
Me: I would have said something there but I thought it was probably a bit awkward as it was quiet in there!

I go on to chat to her for a good 7-8 mins. She asks me a fair few questions, and when I tell her I brewed some wine recently, she goes 'You'll have to show me how to make it'... BINGO!!

I go on to get her number, give her mine, then chat some more about what she's up to. She's off to Japan on business for 2 weeks, so hopefully gonna get her out for a date after that!

Girl 3: Saw a hot Filipino girl head into a clothes shop, hung around outside for a bit til she reappeared. I tried to open her as per the same line, but she ran off saying she had to go to work. Haha!

Girl 4: Was about to head off when I clocked a cute Chinese girl at a makeup stand outside a shop. The owner of the stall was dealing with some customers whilst she was stood there watching. I went over.

Me: Hey, what's this you're selling
Her: makeup, etc...
Me: Anyway, that's not the reason I came over. I saw you from over there and wanted to come and meet you, what's your name.

We chat for a bit about what's she's up to in Manchester, she asked quite a few questions about me, where I'm from etc. She was on a trial shift so I joked about me getting her in trouble with the boss as I was chatting her up. After 5 mins of chat I tell her we should go for a drink. She tells me she doesn't drink. I ignore this and tell her about my colleague from Hong Kong who can't drink. We chat some more, then I tell her I'm gonna go, but want her number. She ignores this and talks about something else... SO I chat some more. Finally I ask again and she gives me her Facebook. Hehe, perseverance paid off.

Good day's work, I'm now beginning to ignore some of the potentially bad signs like girl not smiling, or brushing me off. It probably all went better as I was feeling a lot more confident about my conversation skills, i.e. nice and laid back telling a few stories, and letting them tell me stuff. Getting into a nice flow now.

29th July

OK then. Sunday, sunny, just shaking off a hangover, might as well head into town for a wander round the streets.

Girl 1: Walking along Market Street, clock a nice slim Chinese girl.

Me: Excuse me

She legs it! Think I was a little too timid with this, approaching a little too much from behind her. Made me think I should try to approach them more head on. I head into the Arndale.

Girl 2: I see a lovely Cantonese looking girl walking along texting away.

Me: Excuse me, I wanted to come over and tell you I think you’re beautiful.
Her: Oh thanks, that’s nice of you.
Me: What’s your name
Her: ***, but I need to tell you now I am married.
Me: I’m not surprised, he is a lucky man. See you!

Good to screen her out the equation and her reaction goes to show that she was under no illusions as to my intentions. Bonus.

Girl 3: What looks like a Thai girl (nice dark skin) comes into view, she walks past me, I turn around in pursuit.

Me: Excuse me, I saw you walking past me just then, and wanted to tell you I think you’re beautiful.
Her: Oh, really?

So yeah, usual drill ask her name, chat about what she’s doing. She’s at Bolton uni and visiting Manchester for the wkd. She’s actually Vietnamese, so we talk about the differences in culture, etc. She is really enjoying all this, and keeps giggling. She’s very flirty and tells me she is shy holding her cheeks to hide the blushes. I take the opportunity to caress her cheeks.
After about 5-6 mins of chatting, flirting, physical contact, and both of us generally having an awesome time, I tell her we should go grab a drink to carry on the fun. Insta-date!!

We head out of the mall and I take her to the nearest decent venue. We end up at All Bar One. We grab a couple of beers and I lead her to a nice couch chair in the window (great for turning up the heat on the physical contact). I tell her about the architecture outside the window and get her to tell me about Bolton and Vietnam. I have my arm around her and play with her hair. She seems great with this, and I ramp it up more telling her she has gorgeous hair. Again she’s blushing away and I touch her cheeks. As we chat and joke around, I can’t help but start touching her leg. She tells me not to do as in Vietnam this is not the done thing. Fair play, but this doesn’t stop me doing it from time to time, and holding her hand etc.

We hang out in there a good 30-40 mins, and can see she wants to get back to what she came to town for, shopping. So I tell her I’ve gotta go and walk her back to the shopping area. I tell her it would be great to see her again as she’s a lot of fun. Maybe I’ll go up to Bolton, or show her some of the hidden sites in Manchester. We exchange numbers, I try to hug her, again personal/cultural boundaries are too much, so I tell her we can shake hands instead. I take her hand and kiss it. She shreaks laughing and runs off into the shop. Nice.

30th July

It's 6:30pm after finishing work, and I'm itching to get back into town for more day game action!

Girl 1: Thai girl strutting along in a leather jacket & tight jeans with killer legs.

Me: I saw you walk past and wanted to tell you I really like your style. It's really glamorous.
Her: Ok, thanks.
Me: What's your name.
Her: ***, I have to go to meet my friend.

Yeah, heard that one before haha! She walks off, I didn't try and stop her. She was smiling a little, I think if I'd chased her a bit more I may have had a chance.

Girl 2: Geeky Chinese girl, very nice looking. I approach her walking along side her.

Me: Excuse me, I saw you walk past me back there, and wanted to come and tell you I think you're beautiful.

Her: No

... and she walks off! She wasn't impressed ha!

I wander if I should now try and stop them in their tracks more, i.e. walk around them head on. Some of them are escaping too easily!!

3rd August

Phew. Heavy day of day game today.

Girl 1: Looked like a Japanese girl walking into Primark. I followed her and collared her looking at dresses.

Me: Excuse me, I saw you outside and wanted to come and say hi as I think you look really nice.
Her: Oh. Thanks

I take her hand while getting her name, we chat about her shopping, I ask her if she’s at uni here in England, I tell her I’m at Manchester. The she tells me she is at Durham. I tell her that’s a shame as I would have loved to taken her out. She looks genuinely happy and thanks me again as I walk off. Sweet girl.

Girl 2: Chinese girl in Aldi wearing a lovely summering dress and cool shoes. I want to tell her.

Me: Excuse me I saw you walking past before and had to tell you that you have a really nice style. Do you work in fashion or something?
She is not overly receptive, but I plough on. After 3 mins of conversation she is making excuses about getting her bus. I tell her it would be nice to see her and hang out for a coffee. I get her number. We chat for another minute or so, I exit. Not sure much is gonna come of this, she didn’t seem too bothered.

Girl 3: Cool looking girl walks in Poundland.

Me: excuse me, I saw you outside and had to come and meet you. I love you style, you boots are awesome.

She likes this and is smiling away. I ask her if she is at uni. She tells me she about to start uni. I think she must be a tad too young, and let her slide away into the depths of the shop as I exit.

Girl 4: Saw a group of Asian girls in card shop, one looked amazing. Awesome clothes.

Me: excuse me, I really love what your wearing.

She has a blank look on her face. I then turn to her friend and say, ‘doesn’t she have great style?’

Her friend frowns and says no. I wonder if they knew what the hell I was going on about! haha!

Girl 5 In Boots I see this Malaysian girl

Me: Excuse me, I had to come over and tell you that you keep catching my eye. You have a nice style about you.

She is receptive and we chat about work, Malaysia, the weather,etc. After around 3 mins she tells me she needs to go. I tell her it would be nice to get to know her a bit more as she seems like fun. She claims she has no phone on her, but she will take my number on a piece of paper. We chat some more and then she reveals she has a husband!! I joke that there’s me giving her my number when she’s married. She says it would be nice to hang out anyway, and promises to text me. We shall see (maybe she has some hot mates).

Girl 6: Girl walking along the street. Opened as per the day’s offering. She frowned and muttered something as she walked off.

Girl 7: On the same street. Opened as per, she stopped and looked confused. She said no and walked off.

Girl 8: Girl in Aldi. Opened as per, she wasn’t happy and said she didn’t want to entertain anyone today.

Final thoughts. The opener I ran with today was less direct, and there was far too much room for inauthenticity. By the last few girls I was just rolling the opener out and not really meaning it. No wonder they walked away or frowned. Of course, they could have all had their own issues, or maybe it was the way I was dressed hey. Regardless, I can see the flaws in my behaviour. There was not enough passion from me, although by the end I was pretty knackered and thirsty!

I admire your energy, focus and drive. Primark, Poundland, Aldi, Boots and a fucking card shop! Take my hat off to you man

Who can?

OK, so Fri and Sat I headed out to open some Asian girls in the shopping mall. Both days were very hard work. Fri I couldn’t even get into a conversation with any of them. They literally all ignored me or told me to bugger off haha! Saturday was pretty much the same treatment. This made me a little dubious about being so direct as I’d been telling them I thought they were all beautiful or suchlike. So just before I head home I see this girl in Poundland who had an interesting shoulder bag:

Me: excuse me, I think your bag is really cool, so many zips. Do you keep different things in each pocket?
She laughs and I ask her if she’s a fashion student. She is from Vietnam and we chat about culture and my trip to Hong Kong last year. I initiate plenty of physical contact touching/grabbing her on the arm several times. I find out she lives in my part of the city, so tell her I need to show her some cool places. We exchange numbers and I mosey on.

Sun 5th Aug

I can’t help myself but head to town yet again. I think about how I might have been slipping up. I decide I am going to simplify my opener. My direct opener has been complicated and a bloody mouthful to get out.

Girl 1: Gorgeous Chinese girl in Primark. I spotted her as I walked in, she is looking at hair stuff, I consider the situation and make sure not everyone is hearing what is going on (I don’t want her feeling too much social pressure).

Me: Excuse me, I wanted to come over and tell you something. I think you’re really beautiful.

She seems happy enough and we chat a bit about her hometown, and I tell her about Manchester. She has only arrived from Shang Hai yesterday! She has a friend ringing her, but she doesn’t use it as an excuse to run off. I wait while she chats for a minute, then resume. I end up telling her I’d love to show her around cool places in Manchester. She needs to meet her friends so we walk out of the store together.

I grab her number and her friends appear. I say hi to them and tell them that I saw the said girl, and had to tell her how beautiful she was. I then chat with them all for about 5 mins about Manchester, football and tell them I’d be up for showing them the sites as well. The girl in the group then asks me for my MSN add. Good to have some acceptance from the target girl’s friends. Bonus!

Girl 2: Asian girl in Aldi looking at stationary, she has the most luscious hair you could imagine. I have to tell her!

Me: Excuse me. I had to come over and tell you I think you have beautiful hair.

She thanks me and I ask her if she’s shopping for Uni stationary. She is from a city near Hong Kong, so we chat about that for a bit. Then I get in my element as we talk about food. Here I can really convey some passion, particularly as she complains about English food. I tell her she needs to try my shepherds pie sometime. Anyway, I number close and this one feels like a winner.

Girl 3: Back in Poundland to grab a drink. An Asian girl walks past me and my god her tits nearly have my eye out! She has an lovely mini-skirt on too. Sexy!

Me: Excuse me, I had to come and tell you I think you’re really beautiful, do you live in Manchester?

She is Vietnamese (they all seem to be in Poundland!) and we chat about Manchester, she tells me she finds it boring, so I tell her she’s totally wrong! I tell her I’ve not been to Vietnam, so she tells me she could give me a guided tour one day. Nice! I then flip this and tell her I’ll give her a tour of cool places in Manchester to prove her wrong! Number close.

Today was more like team GB.

Oh and as I was on the bus I saw some Chinese hotty, again with great knockers. She gets off the bus, I hesitate and then decide to get off the stop after. I then run back and find her walking down a side road. I catch up with her:

Me: Excuse me. I just saw you on the bus then and wanted to tell you I think you’re really beautiful.

I ask her what she’s up to in Chorlton and it turns out she is just visiting her folk’s as she lives in London. I carry on chatting with her about London and the Olympic park and it was all rather lovely. We part ways.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

you are a fucking machine man!

i find asian/chinese girls really really hard to chat up due to the language/cultural barriers so you're doing great given how difficult it can sometimes be.