Now, i'm about to start these field reports again. The last four weeks, i've improved. My main sticking points as i've discovered was closing and chilling. These field reports will be a little crap, just highlighting the main interactions.

Thurs 26th July:
Was out in 5th, solo, with the main goal of closing and opening sets. To be brief, I would open, then attempt to K-Close earlier than I felt, then when I get blown out, open the set right by the blow out set. I wanted to d-sensitise myself and I had only 2 hours in the club. Got blown out, abused, all kind of shit, good!!!! Thats what I wanted, after that night, will not be afraid to close again!

Friday 27th July:
Out solo, my general state, ok. Did open, but I felt I was too dancing monkey in set, have yet to realise that I needed to chill out more than I usually do. Went on to dance floor. Saw a cute blond HB7, giving me eyecontact. Reach out so we dance hand in hand. Pulled her in, I was chilled the whole time. We made out, then I pulled her from the dance floor to the bar. I chatted to her, but I was too wooden, not chilled out enough. I made out with her some more, but her mates drag her away. Then fairly flakey sets all night.

Saturday 28th July:
Was out with my two best mates, Swype and Tricks (both PUAs). Awful night. I felt they were getting all the attention from girls, and I was on the sidelines! I confronted my mates about it and they told me to shut the fuck up and man up. Get involved! If my target strays, clearly I haven't done my job! Told me I'd better get my act together for Wednesday, as its my mates fiance's birthday and we're at birdcage!

Monday 30th July
Met Harryhardcastle (kev) and Steve from this forum. Went to 5th. I was in very high spirits, but a bit pressured because I knew I had to go home early. Opening sets went well. One girl HB6, accused me of being gay, I said "yeh course I am", then she said "not attracted to you then", I just smirked, and stuck my finger up at her (jokingly), saw her later on and madeout with, but no number. I think my trigger finger is getting better!

Weds 1st August
My mates tell me I need to up my game and man the fuck up. I start the night thinking "I won't try to be good, i'm the fucking best!". My mates also tell me to chill the fuck out. My mantra was "slow slow, there is no reason why I am not enough"coutesy of Alex RSD.
At the birdcage, alot of gaming was done in the smoking area. I wanted to approach this fit hb8.5, in a non creepy way, so I kind of pivot off these guys infront of her. Then she moves, so I carry on chatting. Then she comes back, so I make eye contact. She comes to me and says hi. Now, she is a little drunk, but its birdcage! Her mate comes up to me and tells me, "try to sober her up!" So I grab both her hands, calmly, saying softly to her "how you doing?",the I tell her in a slow voice, with sexual eye contact "think of the best feeling you ever felt", she smiles, then we make out I get her number, and she says she's leaving, but told me to text her in the morning. It was funny, on this night, I was getting masses of attention of girls, smiles, bum pinches, was amazing! I then bump into this actress chick, hb8.5. I know she's into me, but I chill my self right down, and do things slower than I would normally do. The interaction went amazingly, but then she walked off to speak to a friend. My mates were standing by and suggested I chill with them for a bit. I then in the corner of my eye see the first girl I made out with talking to another guy, but this does not bother me. Then my mates told me to go say goodbye to hbactress. So I go up to her and say "we're going in", but then I felt she wanted to be more intimate, so I made out with her. She used a bit too much tongue action, but never mind. I then took her number down and went back in to the club. Half our later she rings me and texts me (couldn't hear her ) I meet her again in the smoking area, sit down next to her and chill. She seems very comfortable with me. We talk about sex, a conversation she initiated. Screened for SNL logistics, however not tonight. The only mistake I made is when I got back inside, I tried to K-close her again infront of her friends. Hopefully she's forgiven me for that. Try to arrange a date, flake or no flake?

In all, the best night yet, since I broke up with my ex. I learned the more I slow down, the better my interactions become. Will be posting more. I think I've turned a corner this night, nearly at the level I was at two years ago. Especially with the help of my two best buddies, who I did upset, by accusing them of stealing sets. I did man up, so I apologise profusely!

Friday:
Not sure what the fuck happened. No particularly good interactions. I think I'll turn gay and go to the gay village on saturday. Both sexes are down to fuck there it seems.

May as well, 5th Ave was a bloody sausage factory last night!

Sat:
Ended up in 5th again, this time, a lot more girls, so more opportunities
Met a set of ladies from last saturday, and they showed me a bit of love on the dance floor (hugs photos etc) good social proof I was in the zone(state). Its surprising that when you're in state, girls seem to be drawn to you! Bum pinches, random cheek kisses etc.
Met a girl outside in the smoking area, (HB9 - piercing girl) told her "like your piercing, where did you get it done" she said "holier than though, i did it because I was bored etc", then bouncer told be to go inside because I finished smoking. I bump into her inside, says hello, chat a bit, then I mini isolate her on some comfy seats, then just chat and chill, give her random kisses on the cheek, because her face was just fucking stunning. Tells me she would never want to go for a Manchester lad, she loves Londoners . Also guys a lot older than her I told her I was 28, (you know my actual age), she was 22. Some random guys sat opposite her told me I did well talking to her, because she was feckin stunning. Anyway, facebook close her (no number), then she goes. Meet her a bit later, she is in a bad mood. Her friends have pissed her off. Tell her "lets go back to my place then", she said "i'll text you later" I say "you haven't got my number!" so I put it in her phone (feckin should have got her number!). So I leave her, we make out, which was absolutely amazing! This wasn't really a random pissed makeout, it was through me interacting with her over a longer period, being chilled. I then went to find her before club closed, but could not . Should have found her earlier, I reckon I could have sealed the deal, if I would have tried finding her just a few mins before. The idea, try to be there when they leave! Will try and arrange a day 2. And rookie mistake, messing up the number close.

great shit man!

'slowing down' top advice/suggestion. i really need to put that in action. at work and hospital im always going 100 miles an hour... just realised i should really chill the fuck out a bit when trying to woo the gash.

Friday:
Went to Lamaars and Revolution. Hooked just two sets all night. Went a bit yuck, weren't really feeling it.

Sat:

Better night. Out with my best mates. I was really just enjoying the time with my friends as well as gaming. We went to Venus. HBbobhair, asks me for a cig. I said....kiss on the cheek first! She complies, gave her a cig then sat and joined her. I ask her her name, and ask her why she is called that. (i've started doing that now, because chicks get pissed off when you forget their name, so you remember it and its banter). She was getting very touchy feely, I was letting her do a lot of the work and stayed very chiled in the interaction. Attempted a make out a few times, but she wasn't ready. She was heading back in so I took her number.

Then I opened hbbrunette in the smoking area. I was chatting to her, and unknown to me HBbobhair walked by and sat behind us! Swype tried to warn me, and couldn't get a word in for a good 5 mins! HBbrunette goes inside and Swype told me the score. I then just chatted to Swype, he tells me to go up there and kiss her goodbye. So I went behind and said hello. I tried to kiss her but She was with her mate who was upset, and wouldn't kiss me for that reason. But kissed me on the cheek and blew me a kiss when I stood up (had a strange cheeky look on her face?)

There were other OK interactions that night and another number close.

Two days later I text back HBbobhair, and she's happy to hear from me! She's flying out to Ibiza friday (bad news), but arranging a date for when we get back, and she added me on facebook. So potentially the first date since my ex. Fingers bloody crossed.

I'm not gaming now until the weekend because
not in a good position mentally to do day game (in between jobs)
cannot afford to go out

So will be back next week, adios!

Let me know when you fancy coming out with me for some daytime action. You can just come hang out and we can grab a quick beer in the Northern Q.

Freshers creepy harrassment week - coming to a town near you, courtesy of Drey (previously known as the Sapmeister) - no lube