1. There are deeper issues at play here. I'm beginning to see a pattern from the last rel ship.

2. She shouldn't see a therapist, but a psychotherapist. This is to first discover what the root issue/issues are. Then to overwrite them using hypnosis. Trust me I know what I'm talking about. I'm a psychotherapist. If she sees a therapist, those quacks will have her tied to a couch for years. A psychotherapist will have her be ok in the first session.

3. Give her time and a lot of space. Don't get angry. Be a man, not a boy. She seems to be a green personality type.

4. Read (might be useful for you, depending on, in what stage the relationship is, if you have broken up or in the process of breaking up etc) relationship rewind. This will give you the play by play what to do. AS she's going to a psychotherapist. Which you obviously can't force her to see. So it's really up to her if she wants to change that and have good quality rel ships in her life forever, or stay where she is.

That's it. Here's a good start for you both..