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Default 08-09-2021, 04:20 AM

Well didn't mean to be patronising but please realise even if someone gives you the perfect opener. If you go up to a woman with the perfect opener but she senses that you want something from her (Validation/wanting her to respond positively) she's gonna be on her guard. It would most likely have been better to just go up and say genuinely whatever is on your mind or what you truly feel. People especially attractive women can sense when someone is not being congruent and will tend not to respond too positively. That's why we make such a big deal of trying to make you see, not to focus too much on finding the perfect opener.
A genuine compliment and changing topic to whatever, tends to work ok in my experience.


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