Here they let buskers set up in their bar / cafe terraces to play. Sometimes if I'm working or out with a chica I go straight over and pay them to go away before they start.

The owners should at least curate who they let busk based on the type of place it is and what music they want to play. If it is a place I frequent, I'll comment to the owner too.

As buskers come along often it is very easy to segue into this story in social situations and it has a little edge to it, I enjoy it. And people can tell it's real, whatever their feelings about it they straight away think "yeah I bet you do do shit like that, you obtuse twat". And then conversation just rolls out of it.


But anyway, the point.

First off, there are reasons why chicks would dig this story... You are master of your environment, in the date scenario you are being protective, you are happy to step outside social norms when necessary, you are charitable and have enough financial freedom to throw a few bills simply to not have the ambience disturbed... and all the rest of that psuedo-psychology we love so much.

Then, you know, they could get attached to the fact that is a bit of a dick move... which it is... but if they start going off about it, we know what that is too.


It has become a nice little gauge. The girls who straight away defend me and say it is romantic, that's game over pretty much right there. I know what's up. Those who bite down on the dick move side of it, that shows they are angry with themselves for being turned on by me. So there's more work to do in this scenario as I will try to keep them right there in that hate-fuck zone, which is a tightrope walk. Regardless which way they jump, there's stuff there work with. If they don't jump heavily one way or the other, they probs aren't emotionally involved with me.


Big dog K. Still brining you the most dick-wettingest content after all these years.


Peace,

kowalski