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Default 09-12-2020, 10:02 PM

I don't think authenticity is something that can be "measured" by a scientist, you just intuitively know if you're expressing your true self with a person or not. It all depends on the situation and the company you're keeping. Sometimes you'll be expressing it more/sometimes less.

When they talk about "authenticity" in pick up, I interpret it to mean being comfortable with who you are, but just tailoring what you're communicating to the girl by taking into account male/female dynamics and what traits are attractive to women. But it's your personality that is going to either garner that interest/attraction or not, learning to stand correctly or saying some generic "pick up" line, is not what's going to swing it.

A bit of coaching can help, but I get the feeling you're chasing after something you're not going to find.

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