Hi, so Im a beginner to all this and feel I have figured out my own psychological barrier to simply being present with a girl and that is 'genuine interest'.

So my conversational skills aren't the best, but in the right situation I have no problem in this area. After much reflection Ive realised I find it hard to be present with attractive women and any chance of having a decent conversation/game is near impossible or at least Im starting with a significant disadvantage.... I don't know but I suspect this is the same for alot of men?

So after reflecting I've realised if I can become truly interested in her as a person I'll be way more present and be able to connect and progress.
So I'm looking for tips/advice on how to turn my focus solely on having a genuine interest in her? and in doing so everything else will come.

Thank you in advance for any help. Much respect