People have disagreed with you in strong terms, but no one's bullying you bruv. Chill. This isn't a safe space, no one feels a need to be particularly pleasant on here, but if you genuinely want to improve you'll go through much tougher things than someone ribbing you online. It's not that bad.

If you want to get good at this you'll have to change in a lot of ways. There's no way round that. It's worth listening to people who've already done it because, like it or not, you have no way of assessing what will or won't work without a base of experience to back it up.

So what I'm really wondering is, if you have no interest in taking advice or changing or adapting your approach, why even post this? Surely you'll just ignore the feedback anyway? If you want feedback you're welcome to it, but saying you aren't going to change at all from the get go will get you nowhere