It's interesting to note that one inevitable though possibly unexpected positive knock effect of using Pick Up Artist Psychology has on facets of your life, has little to do with seducing women.

I noticed that in a relatively short period time (several months) that although I had considered myself reasonably confident, PUA stretched my social skills & took them to another level.

I now not only have the confidence & competence to approach any woman I choose to & begin to interact positively in most situations, I also find myself unconsciously approaching anyone I want to that interests me. That is quite a handy social skill to be able to develop.

It also interests me to realise that several of my clients want to have this ability, which they have told me, they consider as important as seducing women.

We may have the best intentions at heart, we may also have some very good ideas or useful skills & knowledge to contribute towards society, though if we lack the self confidence & competence to communicate these effectively to another human being, we may as well be invisible.

This is one recent example of how PUA has had a positive effect on me.

I had a bad cough & flu recently which is rare for me. My energy level dropped & I didn't go out unless I needed to for three weeks. I still wanted to enjoy myself & do something stimulating so I thought I'd work on my guitar technique. One of the techniques I decided to work on was playing much faster. With concentrated effort & a metronome I began to make good progress, though wondered how I could improve my technique even more.

The other day I wandered into HMV & I spot one of the worlds top guitarists, Gary Moore in there doing some shopping with his wife. I know he can play incredibly fast, so without thinking, I walk straight up to him, introduce myself & ask him if he could give me a few tips of how to improve my speed.

He smiled & was glad to tell me. I thanked him, shook his hand & then walked off.

A year ago that would not have been possible for me, or if it was, it may have taken a bit of hesitating & trying to think exactly what to say before approaching him. I wouldn't say that all PUA psychology is useful as nothing is, though the good stuff is VERY useful for developing our social skills. It feels good to feel comfortable in your skin chatting with anyone you choose.