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Cool Opening & Attracting - 01-03-2018, 07:09 PM

I assumed something we all knew but some of us didn't, so I'm just going to quickly explain this simple phenomenon. Again this is just my point of view, but it's never let me down so if you disagree or agree, join in and let's talk.

Emotional intelligence is how you win the openers and build the attraction. It's not about what you say but how you say it. Keeping a slow voice, collected manner when speaking and maintaining eye contact is pivotal. But be willing to walk away: like other master PUA's say, you are simply shopping when you play game. You're a guy that's walked into a shop and there are loads of nice looking phones, but until you start palying around with them and start to figure out if you like Sony's more than iPhones you won't know what you want. The girl is the phone. You're making sure she's cool and you want to spend time with her. Just remember that you are you, and who this girl is doesn't matter. Because if she vanished tomorrow you wouldn't remember her, but you would remember the regret of not having spoken to her.

So fuck the anxiety and fear - approach and approach and approach. Put yourself out there and they will buy. Happy hunting.
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Default 01-03-2018, 08:34 PM

This is a hodgepodge of dogmatic pua nonsense. In your analogy phones buy people. Lol.

Emotional intelligence is the capability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one's goal(s). [wiki]

Emotional intelligence is keeping a slow voice, collected manner when speaking and maintaining eye contact is pivotal. [Blue2018]

One of you is wrong.

Back to that analogy though... You ever gone into a phone shop walked towards a Sony and all the phones in that section laugh at you and turn their backs? No. It's a dumb analogy in a million ways.

Then you end by making a metaphor to hunting which is nothing like shopping in a bizarre store where phones buy you.


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Default 08-03-2018, 03:56 PM

Good argument well presented. Factually you are correct, but again as stated at the beginning this is just my interpretation and what works for me. I personally have never been laughed at when approaching a group. And even if they did, so what, you know? Fuck it, at least I did it. As long as you can brush it off and use that rejection as another opener it doesn't matter. But look, I'm not arguing, just saying this is what's helped and worked for me, so surely it's worth trying for you...
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