A woman can be chatted up IF that is the way to her.

It firstly depends on what she is after, and this has to be determined, discovered.

A woman could be just out for a fuck, pure and simple, so having a conversation about whether Elvis really did die or not is going to do any good.

But then with another woman a conversation about whether Elvis died or not would do the trick.

It is a difficult position to be in to try and determine 'the want and the way'.

I don't have such skill. I think you just have to be yourself. I believe that, at the end of the day, she will either want you or no want you. If she doesn't want you then you have no chance. If she does want you then you are in with a chance IF you don't blow it.

That said, say she wants you and you are in with a chance, then there are many things you can do to help yourself not blow it, like looking around areas of her face, knowing she can see these little glances and that you are interested in her in that way, and then making sure you don't dither too long. There are bits of things to help, and is worth the study.

But chat chat is a good thing, it can make women feel at ease and help them to engage with you.

Chatting is a good thing. Women love to chat. They love good chit chat splashed with fun and silliness which makes them laugh. I mean, I have a box of Rice Krispies in front of me. There is loads of material there, hours worth. The free personalised spoon gift, the really bad hair doos, the list if ingredients, the customer care guarantee. This is chatsby which a girl can engage in. I used to think it was actual grains of rice which had been deep fried....crazy.

And Elvis didn't die, he'd just had enough, told the government he'd done his whack and was entitled to some years of R & R. It is obvious. Died on the toilet...pah.

Of course, seduction comes after this, when you get a bit more serious and 'that way', and she sense you really want her, and because she felt so good with you about the Rice Krispies she feels she wants to be with you, cos it ain't gonna be sex all of the time, and she wants to be happy and light and feeling good and together. This packet even has by appointment to Her Majesty the Queen....who would have thought that is how she starts the day, etc, etc, etc...

In all this you can play bits of games. You can say things in an affected and meaningful way, mabye how you 'really like the taste'. So you can 'adult it up' as you see fit, or how you like to eat them: take your time and like to linger and savour, or rip the packet open and pour a big bowl out, chuck some milk on and get straight stuck in until all finished, drinking from the bowl as you finish off.....mmmmm. And how you could just do with a quick bowl right now, so she has time to digest the message and all it entails.

Stop thinking, start doing.