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Default Top 7 PUa openers by Justin Attraction - 31-10-2014, 12:04 PM

The BEST New PUA openers…
These are the “top 7″ conversation starters that have helped me successfully start conversations with women this year so far. And by success I mean eventually leading to fun dates and/or sex.

Brace yourself, because these are impressive, never-before-heard, top-secret openers.

They just might blow your fucking mind.

1. Those are pretty cool shoes

I pulled this super-awesome opener on a girl in the subway. I was walking behind her, and when I got over in her vicinity, I noticed her interesting shoes so I commented on them.

What makes it so good? Women are known to be obsessed with shoes. By talking about her shoes, I’m demonstrating knowledge about something she cares about. Knowledge is sexy. Paying attention to women is sexy. Therefore I am sexy. ***

2. Hey, that’s a cool scarf

Because we didn’t really have a Spring this year in New York, there were a lot of girls wearing scarves around.

I used this mind-bogglingly cool opener many times, including a girl I met on the street and went out with later that night.

Why might this super-awesome opener be so super-awesome? Maybe because scarves are warm and they represent warmth. The throat is one of the most sensitive parts of the body. Therefore by referring to scarves I am mentally associating myself with an intimate area of her body–a part of the body where kisses and caresses are known to occur.***

3. Do you mind if I sit here?

Always effective when your target has an open seat next to her.

By inviting myself to sit down, I am simultaneously (a) showing initiative and therefore dominance and total alpha badass-ness, and (b) eliciting a response from her based on her preference (exactly what a good lover would do in bed: “you like that baby?” etc). This is a deadly combination that is irresistible to unsuspecting females.***

This is how I started a conversation with a girl in a coffee shop who I then dated for several weeks.

4. Hey, what’s up. How you doing?

Intrigue, mystery and desire all wrapped in one package! ***

Be warned, though: this mega-powerful opener is to be used with caution. With great power comes great responsibility. I whipped this baby out on an unsuspecting cutie in the park and wound up on an instant date with her, which ended at my place.

5. Hi… I like those glasses.

Why is this so powerful? Simple: the eyes are the windows to the soul. By commenting on her glasses, I am immediately bringing attention to the eyes–her eyes, and my eyes. Insta-seduction, motherfuckers.***

A girl I opened with this comment came with me to get a coffee off the street, and then later on we were back at my place. Seriously, guys. Glasses.

6. How’s the coffee?

I approached two girls drinking what looked like coffee at a bar. After a fun conversation, I got one of their phone numbers and went out with her a few days later.

What’s so special about my patent-pending Coffee Opener (TM)? My theory is that coffee represents several things that chicks just love *** :
•Warmth (warm things feel good, and the ladies love the feels)
•Energy (vibrancy, excitement, life!)
•Good tasting things (women are sensual creatures of course)
•Productivity (i.e. I’m presenting myself as a hard-working man with provider potential)
•And just a hint of danger (don’t drink too fast or you’ll burn your tongue!)

And needless to say, you drink coffee with your mouth. Mouth = kiss. Sneaky and suave, gentlemen ***

7. Hi… how’s the cigarette?

Ah, perhaps the most powerful of them all. The forbidden, addictive, irresistible lure of that sexy shaft!

I used this opener on a beautiful girl who happened to be smoking on a rooftop bar.

Why is it so deadly effective? She may be smoking absent-mindedly. But by verbally bringing up cigarettes you are sending images into her mind of all those cool and sexy movie characters we’ve all seen for years. ***

Never mind the fact that smoking contributes to erectile dysfunction and penile problems.

The cigarette has been a phallic symbol for generations. Therefore by talking about the cigarette, I am literally mind-fucking her. It doesn’t get more alpha than that, son. ***

Conclusions

Did your brain implode from these incredible, super-advanced, top-level openers? I guess not, since you’re still reading this. Still, pretty impressive, huh?

Ok, let’s get serious for a moment.

There is no special way to start a conversation with a woman.

All of these openers are real, and the stories are true. I did meet up or date those girls. But I would have had the same results if I had started the conversations in a totally different way.

What matters is not how you start the conversation. What matters is that you start it, and that you can communicate with her.

Communication happens in two ways: verbally and nonverbally.

Nonverbally: pay attention to your fashion, style, body language, eye contact, and so on. Verbally: talk to her and be friendly, and flirt and generate some sexual energy.

That is what happened with all of these girls and why they were interested in me. By taking the initiative, I opened the possibility for chemistry to develop.

Even if you could dream up some amazingly original conversation starter, it will not work on every girl. You might entertain or get the attention of lots of girls. But attention and fun friendly conversations do not equal sex appeal or sexual chemistry.

Moreover, you can easily get attention by simply approaching with confidence and saying “Hi, how’s it going?”

Your conversation starter, whether simple or complicated, makes almost no difference.

If you want to start a conversation in a complicated way because you feel like it, or you want to entertain yourself, then by all means go ahead. Just don’t expect your fancy openers to massively change your success with women.

As you can see, these are all indirect openers. Basically anything other than telling a girl she’s hot is indirect. So over 99% of the things you could say to a girl are “indirect openers.”

(Most of the time I simply find it easier to just start talking based on something I see in the situation. Something she is wearing, or something she is doing.)

The good thing about indirect openers is that you can start a conversation in a casual, laid back way without putting too much pressure on it. The main downside is that you risk wasting your time on unavailable girls.

Bottom line: the opening lines don’t really matter. There were other successful approaches where the opener was so boring I honestly can’t even remember what it was.

Just talk to her.

***All explanations marked with these asterisks are total bullshit I just made up. Just in case you thought you had stumbled on a powerful new theory of female attraction.
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Default 09-11-2014, 08:50 AM

Why i feel this is going the opposite way?
DHV her first...
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Default 09-11-2014, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by redboxx View Post
DHV her first...
No, thats just LOL.
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