So I number closed 2 girls last Friday. One a 10 to me (definitely the hottest I have ever gotten the number from) and the other a 6.5. I waited the 3 days I think you should wait. Sent them both messages, but neither replied

The 6.5 I just thought would be a good screw, she was sexy and looked naughty, but I can live without her. The other, the 10, I wanted so badly to at least get to go out with me. Here is the story...

So I was outside smoking with a friend (no idea about the game), we were laughing and she approached us. She asked me for a smoke. I told her it would be five pounds and played with her a bit, she took the bait. She looked like I caught her interest, I kept negging her and we kept joking, she was laughing. She could have gone back to the people she was with (her cousin apparently, never looked to see the sex), but she stuck around and smoked with us. My friend left. The coversation was good (nothing scripted and I kept teasing but it eventually fell into the usual "what do you do blah blah blah") Turns out she was from Norwitch, and we were at a club in London.

When we were done with our smokes we kept talking for about another 10 minutes, she didn't look like she wanted to leave. I was keen on another drink so I said "Look, I am gonna take a chance here and ask for your number (AFC I know). She said she didn't know her number, my heart dropped a bit and then I began to say, "that is the worst bullet I have ever" and she said hold on. She walked to the table and grabbed her phone, I told her to call me and she did. I was so chuffed!!!

After the 3 days I sent the following:

Hey there smoker
You owe me one
How awesome is it that it is Monday?!!!
That means that it is almost Friday again

She never replied.

The next afternoon I sent:

Not a Monday person I gather lol! Listen, I am going to give you a call this evening, want to chat to you about something.
Oh and btw this is noxx (used my real name), the charming guy you met at Jewel on Friday night.

I then tried to call at around 20:30 on the Tuesday and there was no answer, I didn't leave a message. So I sent her some of what I had scripted to say to her:

Hey Smokey. So I just tried to call as I am sure you will see. You owe me a fiver as per the agreement So wanted to say the next time you are in town we are gonna party, you have good wing woman potential I think (only time will tell though, I have been wrong before (think this might have made her think of me as a player), let's hope I am right about you))))) We will find you someone in the process too (I read something similar to this somewhere, well, playing the game of saying you going to find her a partner when you first meet her but I thought I would take the chance)

She has not replied, even though I know they have both seen the messages as I contacted them on WhatsApp (not sure what you guys think about this? You can obviously see if people have sen the messages and when they were last online...)

That was Tuesday, still no response, I can take it on the chin, learn from it and move on but I would love to know if anyone thinks I can bring this back?

If not, do you think I should send one last message asking her to be brutally honest and tell me where I went wrong?

Thanks in advance for the advice guys. Please remember this is my first post and I am a newbie so be gentle lol!

Cheers!

i would'nt leave it 3 days mate. Too long. Should have texted her something simple later on in the evening whilst you were fresh in her mind. From what i understand that's the general advice and it makes sense.

Maybe there wasn't enough connection or DHV during the approach.

I'm pretty much a newbie myself so I find myself getting similar results too.

Thanks dude, I have heard 3 days is it, can't look too deperado... But I think that would have helped. Notes taken!!!

No way of getting this to happen again then you think?

After 3 messages and a non answered call I'd say she's not interested. There could be a million reasons why. Forget about it and move on.

Waiting 3 days then sending needy texts without a reply - screams desperation

Move on and gain some experience and dignity from the situation. Either that or keep texting your "10" until she points out the obv

Next time text the girl later that same night with something fun like
"you owe me a fag and I always collect xx"

There are so many rules that everyone knows like the 3 day text rule

Girls like it when you break these rules but aren't needy as it shows you're different.