Convert nailed that shit.
I don’t think there is such thing as “one true love” nor “love at first sight” to think so is ridiculous.

Im still sceptical about the whole theory of love,
The word “love” gets thrown around too much, and many people are unable to distinguish between feelings of love, as they describe it, and infatuation, obsession and fixation.
I totally believe you can become addicted to a being around a certain person, but love…..i duno.

An the feeling of breathlessness and butterflies in your stomach is absurd, I get the same feelings before a fight.

It would be nice to believe in actual love but I have yet to witness it.

My Personal opinion in all of this is that every emotion you exeperience in your life time is the result of a chemical release, triggered by some form stimulus.

Man sees woman with 36DD, slim waist and child bearing hips - Brain releases "Cock go hard" chemical, man feels attraction/lust.

So once you've spoken to the girl and maybe dated and fucked (or orbited if you're still AFC) you get to know that maybe she's a cool person too and you attach alot of value to the girl. Now your brain releases chemicals that make you want to spend time around the girl alot (I dunno maybe more time spent = more opportunities to breed / ensure that no other males breed with her?), and I believe that the chemicals releases / emotions experienced are what people believe to be love.

Lets face it, in the above example you "Love" the girl, but if a more attractive option came along your dick would get hard for her due to the same chemical release process.

To me, believing in "True Love" is kinda naive, it's the same as believing in Destiny, Fate and/or God - in that it is not you that is really controlling your life. Your "True Love" is out there and you will meet her whether you like it or not? - Too much BS for me.

You meet women that make your dick hard, and you meet some women that make your dick harder.

That is true neuropa but than there is still brain to coordinate ur stiffy



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I think 'love' is all about us and not about them. It's somthing we experience ourselves in our own heads. If you think about one girl too much in a certain way it can cause you to start to feel in love with them because you're focusing on them. I guess if you beleive in your head it's true love then I guess it is just because you think it is and feel like it is. However, at the same time it's only real because you've decided it is and belive it is, and you could just as easily experience the same feeling with another girl afterwards - you just don't believe that.

I can't help but think that falling 'in love' leads to weakness, chodeness and eventually seals the fate of the relationship (in most cases) and can lead to anxiety. These days I think it's better to love the girl you're with but at the time but don't ever think of it as 'true love' because that makes you feel like they're overly important as they are THE ONE and you can't loose them etc. and almost puts them on a pedistal. I think just love girls and some maybe more than others but always know there are plently more girls to love out there.

Personally I don't belive in true love with 'the one' - people change and 'the one' today might be your worst nightmare in 3 years time. If real love means anything to me I guess it's about the moment and maybe that person in that moment and the emotion in the moment.

My Big Pink Love Compass always points towards Shagnetic North

I believe in love cos' when I do fall in love, I give my 100% into the relationship. And I never go into a relationship thinking it would fail otherwise I wouldnt bother. Whether it lasts or not, is a different story altogether. I have fallen in love twice and gave my utmost best to the relationships, but in both occassions, I was left to nurse the hurt cos I got dumped. NO regrets though cos the initial falling in love is beautiful..!

I believe in a thing call love.

Just listen to the rhythm of my heart!

All there is is compatibility as far as I'm concerned and then both people have to make the effort. True love is almost a mystical term which makes you question what you have with someone. Is this it? The very act of questioning makes you think it isn't. And at sometime or another we'll always question our relationships.

I think it's better to simply ask, am I happy? That's a much more useful question with two outcomes; yes or no. If it's yes then great, let the good times continue. If it's no then something has to change or you move on. That gives you a choice and the power to do something and thus be in control.
So no I don't believe in true love, just love.

Rock n roll

Oh yeah Pick Up really changed my beliefs on this 'true love' gig.

The one? ...I'm sure we could all find 'The one' in every major city or in any country. It all matters where you are.

And relationships are all about timing. "Life's a game of inches" as Al Pacino says. You could meet your perfect girl, but if she has just come out of a relationship or not "emotionally ready"..you pass on to the next perfect girl.

It's just about emotional openness and timing...and then it relies on reciprocation. The ones who don't continue on arguments or get stubborn...they are willing to step back sometimes and see the bigger picture to work on it.

true love I think you only see in movies RL check is that it's hard to find the 'right' girl that you want to settle down with.