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Default Does this P**S anyone else off aswell..... - 18-09-2016, 12:03 PM

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So over the years I have always been the scapegoat of my 'Social' circle of friends, as the one who dates 'the uglies' or 'the fatties' or just the general undateables? Does anyone get this or am I just playing the victim here?

Also, my phone has a lock screen and a homescreen with smoking hot women as a background. Whenever ANYONE comes over and notices, they will comment on how hot they are. They then ask 'i take it you don't know them and its just a downloaded photo, as you will never know or get a women like that'??

This is really dragging me down after SO many years of it and i wanted to know if anyone elses' lack of ability to get a 10 is putting them into a pit of self hate also? Why do i constantly dwell on and am forever consumed by my overbearing lack of ability with women??

Anyone?

Obviously the above is why I read forums such as this BTW so thanks in advance for any pointers.
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Default 27-09-2016, 12:03 AM

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Fellow PUAers'

So over the years I have always been the scapegoat of my 'Social' circle of friends, as the one who dates 'the uglies' or 'the fatties' or just the general undateables? Does anyone get this or am I just playing the victim here?

Also, my phone has a lock screen and a homescreen with smoking hot women as a background. Whenever ANYONE comes over and notices, they will comment on how hot they are. They then ask 'i take it you don't know them and its just a downloaded photo, as you will never know or get a women like that'??

This is really dragging me down after SO many years of it and i wanted to know if anyone elses' lack of ability to get a 10 is putting them into a pit of self hate also? Why do i constantly dwell on and am forever consumed by my overbearing lack of ability with women??

Anyone?

Obviously the above is why I read forums such as this BTW so thanks in advance for any pointers.
Well, I would say banging a fatty is better than not banging anything at all. Knowing your market value is prety improtant, I'm sure you can probably do better.

But get rid of the naked chicks on your phone, are you 15 years old?
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Default 27-09-2016, 10:36 PM

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So over the years I have always been the scapegoat of my 'Social' circle of friends, as the one who dates 'the uglies' or 'the fatties' or just the general undateables? Does anyone get this or am I just playing the victim here?
Are you saying that you have always dated what you would call "uglies"? If you feel that way about them why have you dated them?
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This is really dragging me down after SO many years of it and i wanted to know if anyone elses' lack of ability to get a 10 is putting them into a pit of self hate also? Why do i constantly dwell on and am forever consumed by my overbearing lack of ability with women??
Is this a genuinely limiting belief?
kowalski has posted before about a guy who he noticed on a night out chasing the arm biters despite the fact that a group of attractive women were interested.

I think you need to ask yourself are you chasing the ugos because that's all you can get or because you can't handle the rejection of the girls you find attractive?

As Jaz said; take the naked ladies of your phone... and probably your desktop and walls too.


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naked chicks on phone screams desperation, that or closet gay
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On my phone is me naked.
To be completely fair, most of the forum also have that image as their phone wallpaper too


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