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Unhappy OK so you've heard this before................. - 08-07-2015, 02:20 AM

So there are alot of guys in here who are overcoming social conditioning and limiting beliefs and congratulations if your 5'8 and think your short, well your not... if your in a wheel chair or under 5'4 then you are short deal with it, game will be harder for you what ever anyone says if you'v been in a car crash and your missing half of your face its going to be hard that's life no matter how many coaches you speak to who tell you its just your limiting beliefs i have one of those problems ive been out done well over 500 approaches and on a good day can get some numbers and also been on a SINGLE date... didnt go well hard to practice dates when you dont go on many, ive had coaching been out with wing men who to be fair in my and other people ive been out with have les "game" then me but nothing so what i want to know is of people in this "Industry" who've had to overcome physical defects and have come out with results and yes you can say shuan stevens a very inspirational dude but has no real advice or a story about he's meet women successfully. There are men with defects who have girlfriends but not through cold approaches, there is cupid smupid who number closes, any one can get numbers, women will do it out of politeness and then flake. So PLEASE prove me wrong you'd actually be doing me and alot of people favours by showing us evidence of our limiting beliefs being just that because the only legitimate guy under 5'4 ive seen (whivch isnt as bad bad a physical defect as others) is Prince and i cant be a multi talented musical prodigy i cant follow his lead and neither can most. Its a cold, hard, lonley road for all of us not considered physically normal. For those reading this and in my position i suggest social circle game which has a lot of pitfall for you if your new to it and if you fuck up that may not be your social circle for long and finding a new circle is probably harder then finding a girl so good luck and may the force be with you, i'm very near quitting and just trying prostitution for the first timem if it changes and i have some success ill be back and post a positive post for all off us physically challenged. 1 Love little dude
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Default 08-07-2015, 08:22 AM

One thing that might help is including punctuation in your posts.
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Default 08-07-2015, 11:06 AM

I'm short as fuck myself. Whatever. I couldn't tell you my exact height but I'm definitely under 5'6. The thing is that's a bar you can set arbitrarily according to your own insecurity. Is it a disadvantage? Yeah, maybe. But so what? You have the option of staying at home and whining or trying to do something. It's obviously not impossible.

Stop calling it a defect, and stop pinning your failures on your height. The problem here is that you've done a bunch of approaches (stop counting them by the way) and you've got numbers but it's gotten you nowhere. That impasse happens to practically everyone at some point. Main reason - standard cold approach awkward chat number close is bullshit. So try something different. And that doesn't just mean run off to a social circle and try to finger Wendy from accounting at the office party. It means start thinking for yourself, reassess what you actually want and adjust your behaviour to be in accordance with that


“As to methods there may be a million and then some, but principles are few. The man who grasps principles can successfully select his own methods. The man who tries methods, ignoring principles, is sure to have trouble.” - Emerson
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