Ok so was out last night and some loud mouth ugly fat girl came up to me unanouced and said to me "did you just call me a slag, my friend said you called me a slag" (very agressively, pointing n shouting). Then before i know it her even fatter uglier friend came over being very agressive stating shes going to get all her tough man friends to beat me up. Not having come across anything like this before i just acted calm and smiled, saying sutff like "oh right". Anyway they fucked off in the end, i found it very hard to restrain myself from being agressive back to them. Bare in mind these girls were not teenagers they were at least 25 years old.

Later on in the night whilst i was dancing one of them came up behind me like twice rubbing there ugly fat arse into the back of mine, then would run away (i say run, but it was more of a woddle). Now i know what it must feel like for girls when big ugly men rub up to them on the dance floor... i feel so violated and at the same time helpless as its not like i can resort to violence to solve the situation. And trust me there was no speaking to these girls, best thing to do was to look away and ignore.

Anyway i was wondering if anyone has had any situation like this before as i still find it quite hard to believe this actually happend. And if you have what did you do?

AJay

best thing to do is ignore them or you can just take the piss out of them or you can leave.

I find it funny how peeps say hot girls are bitches but in my experience I get a lot of shit from ugly girls cock blocking and other situations.

I remember one good one to do is look at them pause then just turn your back to them.

as for the dancing thing don't really know what to do about that.

you shoulda got one back. fat girls give amazing blow jobs cos they're used to having things in their mouths.

best way to deal with a cock block, act like u & the girl ur chattin to both know ur fuckin and say

" theres nothin more annoying than a cock-block,are you always this jealous??? let it go! im sure u will find sumone in a min"

just call her out on it. chances are the fit one is used to her bein jealous. makes it u 2 vs her...

thanks phil that's an amazing way to handle it. have I ever mentioned I love you?

dam fat ugly cock blocks they piss me off.

Theres obviously a female version of mystery out there somewhere promising fat ugly girls that can bag a fit bloke using "negs".

Risky move long term, it pays not to make enemies with someone's friends from the go. Behind closed doors you've got someone constantly trying to turn their friend away from you.

Short term it doesn't really matter though.

but trying to be their friend is not gonna work cos their mission was to try and fuck with you. you'll not get respect by trying to be their friend.

Yea this is spot on, i wasnt trying to bag her friend i was at the bar getting a drink! they came over to me! It was a difficult situation and i think i handled it ok, i couldnt say "oh no i didnt say anything" as clearly they were out to get a reaction.... i couldnt say "fuck off" as they would have started a big scene and given them the reaction they wanted... all i could do was be non reactive, and laugh it off.

AJay

lol, im actually going to steal this line as an opener now, obviously i wont say it in an agressive manor but hey it might work.

AJay

Ah yes, but you don't have to make a person your enemy either. None reaction. They're only knowledgably acting that way because you have not earned their trust and are often ruining their night out with their friend. Acceptance is the middle ground.