So I gamed a Lesbian...

[Holmes]

So let's keep this short, in the pub where I work, I managed to game this 40 year old lesbain. She's about a 7/10, really good looking for her age, and two hours ago she called into the pub for a drink, and basically said in front of everyone, she wants me to fuck her.

Now I'm comfortable with how good I am in bed, we both know it's just something for shits and giggles, and as of right now, I'm on a two hour break, and she wants it now.

But for some reason, I can't do it.

I don't know what it is that's stopping me, but it's really annoying, there will be plenty of other opportunities in the next couple of days/weeks, but why can't I get the balls to do it now? =[

Anyone else been in a position like this?

[RLAJay]

She is not a lesbian, she is bisexual.

You can not fuck a lesbian (legally) under the typical "only likes girls" definition.

There are a few possibilities here.

You're afraid of not being good enough because she usually only gets with women, women know what women like because women know precisely how it feels.

You feel like the outcome of what you're going to do will impact whether she likes men in future.

You feel like you're doing something wrong, that you have manipulated her against her primary sexuality urges.

If the top two, it really doesn't matter. If the latter, any manipulation is an issue but there's no such thing as motivating her against primary sexuality urges, there is no base right or wrong with inter-gender sexuality, just what people feel sexually attracted to and not.

[Blanca]

Originally Posted by RLAJay

She is not a lesbian, she is bisexual.

You can not fuck a lesbian (legally) under the typical "only likes girls" definition.

There are a few possibilities here.

You're afraid of not being good enough because she usually only gets with women, women know what women like because women know precisely how it feels.

You feel like the outcome of what you're going to do will impact whether she likes men in future.

You feel like you're doing something wrong, that you have manipulated her against her primary sexuality urges.

If the top two, it really doesn't matter. If the latter, any manipulation is an issue but there's no such thing as motivating her against primary sexuality urges, there is no base right or wrong with inter-gender sexuality, just what people feel sexually attracted to and not.

In short, if she's mad about fucking you, call her out on it. Speak to her in private and say "So you want me to fuck you do you? Give me your number and I'll text you after work."

Then fuck her senseless. Easy peasy.

[Rabbid]

Go now do it

[Phil]

Originally Posted by Holmes

So let's keep this short, in the pub where I work, I managed to game this 40 year old lesbain. She's about a 7/10, really good looking for her age, and two hours ago she called into the pub for a drink, and basically said in front of everyone, she wants me to fuck her.

Now I'm comfortable with how good I am in bed, we both know it's just something for shits and giggles, and as of right now, I'm on a two hour break, and she wants it now.

But for some reason, I can't do it.

I don't know what it is that's stopping me, but it's really annoying, there will be plenty of other opportunities in the next couple of days/weeks, but why can't I get the balls to do it now? =[

Anyone else been in a position like this?

coz she is out alpha-ing u

[sapphire]

Originally Posted by Phil

coz she is out alpha-ing u

"AFOG" ??

[Holmes]

Hey guys, let me explain everything and what happened.

Basically you hit the nail on the head, RLAjay, it was a combination of all those three things, I was worried I wouldn't be good enough, she is 40, I'm 20, impulsive sex, not sure what she likes, and thinking I made her want this.

She would often tell stories like she's always dominant, she fucks for hours and all this stuff, and as good as I am in bed, I was like oh shit, I don't want to let her down kind of thing.

So anyway, after writing this thread, I got an email from the BBC saying they want me to do an advert for this building that has had like, 3 million pounds put into it to re-develop it, in northen England past Manchester I think, and I needed two days off this month to film, so I went into the garden where the Lesbian was sat with my boss and two co-workers, and said to my boss I need x and y off, she said you can have them off if you go and fuck her now.

So I jested like yeah ok haha no problem, and then she was like, no I'm deadly serious.

So I kind of gave in, thinking fuck it, if I get shown up, whatever.

Went and tidied my room and all that (because I'm a suave motherfucker), and then thought hang on, one of the reasons I'm scared is also because I'm being pressured into it, however if I was gaming her with knowledge I could fuck her (I was gaming her thinking it would never happen, just for shits and giggles because she was 40 and a lesbian etc), then I'd be right up for it, and at the end of the day, I gamed her right, to the point where she wanted me.

So fuck it, turn alpha male. If she thinks she can fuck the brains out of me, I'd like to see her try.

So I went downstairs, said right get your ass up stairs, and away we went.

Got in the bedroom, put some music on, straddled her, started kissing hard and fast, being dominant and shit like that, pulling her round and basically, in my mind, thinking I'm going to dominate you before you get a chance to dominate me.

As it turns out, she was a pussy-cat.

I made her squirt during foreplay, which made me feel more confident about fucking her because I wouldn't have to worry about how long I lasted, my dick kept going too deep and hurting her, which surprised me (cause she told me about this 10inch dildo she says is her best friend and brought it into the pub one night, it was a scary fucking thing), and long story short, we fucked coming up about an hour and a half, and stopped.

She was ruined.

I hadn't come yet, for me it was still round one, but she was done and said she couldn't go on and that we'll have to finish it sometime during the week.

I'm not bragging about this by the way, I'm simply listing facts.

I felt a huge weight lift from my shoulders, women can big themselves up just like men do about the size of their cock.

And getting through that phase of fear and what if's, grabbing my balls and saying let's fucking do this, I've managed to please her more than I thought, get over a huge wall that usually I can't climb (because pressured into sex with expectations), and actually had a real good time.

So in future I'm always going to think back to today, and remember how I felt, ad obviously their will be times when it goes bad instead of good, but fucking one 40 year old lesbian isn't the be all and end all of how good I am in bed.

I'm glad I've realized this.

As a general note, I'm not shy about sex usually, I've slept with around 20-ish women since I was sixteen, and fucked three women this week, this was just a new hurdle I've not come across.

Anyway, sorry for the essay, and thanks for all your advice people, I'm going to sleep now a happy man =]

Matti

P.s. I'm not sorry about the essay.