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Default Over 30 and never had girlfriend or sex - I need some advise - 01-10-2018, 05:55 PM

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As you can see in the topic I'm 30 years old and never had a girlfriend or sex. I moved last year to a new city and I don't have many friends here. I have a successful job. Also in the past I don't have success with women. It's a bit complicated because I'm not so shy. I have often a date but I know this women's from Facebook etc. The most time it's the same I dated her one time and than she don't have time etc. Also sometimes I have date with women's date I know from daily life, there is it the same. I don't know how I can change it,maybe somebody can give me a advise. I friend from my hometown means, I must be more open and tell the women's what I want. I'm a normal guy, 168 cm tall, sporty figure and good clothing style. I think the most people think that I'm from Italy, because a lot of work colleges ask me, if I'm from Italy. (Brown eyes, dark brown hairs, good teeth and a very good style. Also I think it's not that way, that I'm just looking for models or something like that. I would say maybe 4/10 Hb. What you think is the problem, that I have often date but nothing more.
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Default 01-10-2018, 07:14 PM

So, where are you from?


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Default 01-10-2018, 07:19 PM

I'm from Germany

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Default 01-10-2018, 08:45 PM

And you live in Germany or somewhere else?


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Default 01-10-2018, 09:16 PM

Yes, but I had in the past a lot of dates with women's from different countries. So I prefer this English page
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Default 01-10-2018, 10:11 PM

I'm going to assume that your primary goal here is just to have sex, not necessarily to get in a relationship or anything like that.

You mention you get dates via facebook. If you had to explain how A --> B --> C you would get laid doing this, what would it look like in your opinion?


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Default 01-10-2018, 10:22 PM

Was asking because often being foreign, depending on the nations you are from and in, can either be an advantage or a disadvantage. If you are in your own country and are of that nation's standard ethnicity, then it's not a factor.

Was it very clear, to both parties, that these dates you have gone on were dates?
Have you been kissing these girls on your dates?


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Default 02-10-2018, 07:58 AM

Hello,

I think for the online dates it was clear that this meetings are dates. But I only kissed one girl. With the offline dates maybe sometimes it was not so clear, because I meet for example one girl from work and I think it was not a real date. The date is very often the same, we talk, laughing etc. Also very often the women make plans for a new date or say, yes we must meet again etc. but normally after yhe first date the don't contact me again. Maybe you can tell me how I can make it for her clear that it's a date, How I can show real interest and what could I change (my behaviour) on this date(s) because as I said, normally it's always the same.
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Default 02-10-2018, 09:35 AM

Stein asked a great question that you should also answer.


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Default 02-10-2018, 10:12 AM

Maybe I understood the question wrong, because I think I answer already. But if you mean how I do it, it's very simple. I just wrote her a message on Facebook about a topic that I saw on her profile than I had a small conversation on FB with her and ask her for a real date. In real life, work for example. I also talk with the women a bit and ask her than for going out and her number.
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