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Default Becoming unattracted - 12-01-2018, 02:05 PM

I'm interested in discussing first hand experiences of anyone becoming unattracted to another with whom initially there was attraction but they didn't get fat or ugly... and let's define attracted as - would bang.

I've don't think I've ever had that happen to me. I've initially liked a person, as a person, then ended up disliking them, but would totally still fuck them when I didn't like them anyway. Just the dislike made it less possible / probable. Or I've ended up not being attracted to someone I was previously attracted to because they got fat or ugly.


'a sane male becoming unattracted to a female with whom initially there was attraction without her getting fat or ugly'

Is it a real thing?


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Default 13-01-2018, 06:05 PM

Attraction and who a guy would fuck are two different things.

It happens occasionally but, from what I remember, it's often borderline attraction followed by a terrible personality. Or a personality that's too masculine/full of herself.

And I have a vague recollection of a few times where initially I thought a girl was attractive because of how she presents herself (make-up/personality/fashion of a hot girl), or possibly even her status. You know when everyone says a girl is fit but isn't.

Not being pedantic but I think attraction would be better put as a girl you would go after and put effort into.


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Default 15-01-2018, 04:23 PM

I tend to make a snap decisions on how I feel about a women. A girl I like or have 'feels' for can say the wrong thing then in my head I can just think "i don't like you anymore" then that's it, no more feels. I've lost count of the amount of times whereby I've been seeing a girl, thought that then left her place knowing full well I will never see them again as long as I live. True abundance mentality turns you into a sociopath on some level.

I don't think it's normal to be honest.
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Default Yesterday, 02:32 PM

Ok. There's also sexual attraction and that's what I framed the question around. If you would bang, you're attracted. That's just how those words work. We can be attracted in other ways too but I'm specifically interested if any of you have had it where something they say or do blinds you from their obvious fuckableness. Not whether you'd put effort into pursuing her and not if you'd walk away from her. Those are different things.

Like, think of your fave celeb crush or whatever. Then you meet. Turns out they're just awful. And you stop thinking they are pretty or that their body is hot... although their face and body have not changed at all.


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Default Yesterday, 09:16 PM

Something that has put me off girls without them getting fat or ugly, is facial piercings. Specifically lip piercings.

Even more specifically, these "snakebites" that some girls get, which is a stud on each side of their lower lip. Horrible.

I find lip piercings repulsive and I've seen both girls I've been with and girls I've wanted to be with go from hot to not hot automatically after getting a lip piercing. They completely put me off.

Almost as bad are septum piercings, which is right through the middle section of the nose as opposed to either side. What the fuck are you trying to look like, a bull? It's usually a hoop, or on an even more ridiculous level is what this very hot, kinky blue haired girl on another floor of our building has, some kind of hoop with a spiky thing hanging off it.

Personally, the only time a facial piercing is acceptable on a girl is one small little sparkly piercing on one side of her nose. I don't even think they can get away with a hoop on one side.

You could argue this isn't a correct response, but I believe it is because their face and body has not changed at all but now I think they are ugly through something they've done to themselves, rather than just literally growing ugly.

To be totally honest, I guess there are some who I would still bang, like the girl in my building. Although girls with snakebites have no chance.


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Default Today, 02:34 AM

If we're defining attraction as "would bang" and the constraint is they haven't changed physically I for sure have become unattracted inside of that framework. If you're aware of the validating effect sex undoubtedly has you're aware that other people will experience that by you having sex with them too.

I've had girls who've tried to act manipulative and shady act in ways where I wouldn't want to validate a damn thing about them. Nothing physically has changed, but my opinion of them has totally, and as a result, I wouldn't have sex with them. Sex as a mutually consensual and validating experience implies that things, even on a flimsy superficial level, are all good, when they might not be. Basically, it's possible to dislike someone to the point where you feel like giving them that kind of validation disgusts you to a point that overrides the physical attraction.


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