So here it is in a nutshell,
I have recently moved to Ireland and ended a 4 year relationship, I was actually engaged.
I'm staying with a friend of a friend from my home country.
Quite often we cuddled but nothing sexual, when I eventually told her that me and my fiance were done we ended up having sex, mostly initiated by me. This has happened a few times now. But then it stopped.
She still has ties to an old relationship with someone from our home country, a sort of love but not in love situation.
She has told me she likes me and is attracted to me but we can't have sex because we are housemates.
We spend a lot of time together and get on we'll,make each other laugh,sex was great when it was happening.
I don't want a relationship right now but could definitely see myself with her in the future.
For now I just want to keep having sex.
Is there anyone that can help me navigate this minefield?? What should I do, thinking pulling back might be the best option atm?

Relatable.

Anyway... don't be her time ho. Don't be doing shit for her or with her or pretending her stories aren't fucking dreadful or whatever like she is anyone. Treat her like you would a girl you don't fancy or a guy you know (same difference).

In other words, just be chill and forget about pursuing her, realise she's not all that. Not as a tactic. Just because self respect.


Peace,

kowalski

I think you're right
I should probably be practicing my game on other women to develop myself than just getting an easy lay
Been feeling the need to step back but more as a tactic but either ways i think its the best way to go


Thanks for the response, much appreciated