Ah, OK. I just sometimes put that sort of stuff in as I just know that people would say ''Why did you leave her at that point!!?'' and then i'd have to make a separate reply saying ''because my brother was being thrown out and I needed to back him up'' kind of thing (but yeah, some things could certaonly be cut out without much of an effect)

OK, went to a different town last night.
Immediately different, less hostile vibe in terms of the girls. It's a posher town.

I know people say you shouldn't blame your logistics etc, but I live in a rough area and It often seems like if you aren't 6ft plus and haven't got a skinhead and neck tattoos and an extensive criminal record, then girls dismiss you quickly or feel entitled to be rude. They aren't like that with intimidating looking guys, though.

Anyway, in the first bar there was LOTS of beautiful young girls everywhere. I had bad AA, although, once again, I was able to notice that the source of it was more 'my friends' as opposed to 'the girls'. I fear them watching me get rejected more than the girls rejecting me! I don't approach. Feels bad. Did I mention that there were 8's/9's everywhere!?


Next bar//
My friends are all outside smoking and there's a hot girl near me close to the bar. I open her:
''Hey, you! I need your help''
''What's up?''
''Where's good to go In this 2-horse town? I'm not from around here''
She laughs.
She asks me where i'm from and stuff and I kino her a little bit immediately. She asks my name and I tell her that I can' tell her because I don't want her stalking me on facebook. She seems to find this hilarious and is kinoing me. Then she tells me that she's married but that she's got some cute friends that are single. I tell her that she's the only one for me and hug her. She's super giggly. My friends come back in from their smoke and tell me they want to go too a different bar. I say goodbye to the girl.

next bar//
It feels like them sort of bars you see on PUA vids in Eastern Europe. once again, my friends don't want too approach, I see a gorgeous blonde girl with wavy hair sitting down and she's glued too her phone.
I open her.
''Hey! It's a great app, isn't it!?''
''What is?!!''
''Tinder!! I saw you swiping away. You can't fool me!''
''haha!! No!! shows me her phone and she's messaging her boyfriend
Pretty much a lost cause but we chat briefly. I tell her she's cute and that's why I approached her and she lights up. Genuinely pleased. She asks me questions and says that i'm cute and that she's flattered. I guess I left her better than when I met her which is better than nothing. I go back to my friends.

next bar//
My friend is at the bar getting served and there's 2 girls near him. THEY kind of open HIM (he's pretty handsome and married. The rich get richer!! Smile).
One is fairly pretty but is a little bit fat. The other isn't my type at all.
I open the prettier, fatter one.
''Hi! Are you being nice to my friend??''
''No! We're being mean to him''
''I've met girls like you before. Bullies!''
We kind of hit it off immediately and they follow us back to our part of the bar where me and my friends were prior. We branch off. The girl in the glasses is talking to my other AFC mates, and i'm flirting with the prettier (yet fatter) one.
She's asking me lots of questions. I accuse her of flirting with me and fancying me.
She plays along and sort of roleplays? ''Yeah, I think you'er amazing!''
I say ''Tell me the 3 things that you like so much about me'' (i'm just being a dick, pretending that I love myself and putting her under pressure like i'm interviewing her)
She tells me that she thinks i'm smart and a few other things.
I'm kinoing her a fair bit now. Unsure how to gage her since she isn't touching me back at all, although she hasn't left (which RSDMax says is the biggest IOI)

It's late and we all leave together, I assume to get a cab (remember we're away from out town) but than the girl with glasses mentions that she has some drinks at her place. (these 2 girls live together)
I'm walking with the prettier one. We are laughing and talking and we slightly 'fall back' from the rest of the group.

I go for the kiss. Denied!!! (she pulls away and turns her head)

I made it a resolution to be more brave in terms of going for the kiss so that I don't wake up with regrets. To be honest, It wasn't that bad. I just laughed it off and then started talking about something else that made her laugh whilst also kind of touching her and pushing her away from me in a playful manner.

We get back to their place and i'm sitting on the couch, flirting with my girl and the other girl is kinod of sitting on her own and my friends are all just sitting around not doing much, and almost immediately they talk about getting a cab home.
There's no way I can afford a cab home on my own.
They all leave the room to do something (I forget what) and the girl asks me if I'm staying or going. She's basically asking me to stay. I tell her i'm not sure.

I go for the kiss again. Success. We kiss for a bit and it's nice.

I let down my fellow posters here as I end up leaving with my friends.

I feel it was basically 'in the bag' but between the skinful of alcohol, the fact that she wasn't completely my type, and the fact that I didn't want to be stranded out of town and pay a fortune to get home on my own meant that I decided to turn down the 80%+ possibility of sex and share a cheap cab with my friends.

THOUGHTS:
Fairly successful compared to usual in terms of zero bad reactions to my approaches. However, I can't pat myself on the back too much as i'm certain it's down to location.
It's why i'm so jealous of the US guys here. I'm instinctively certain that i'd do so much better over there based on what I see. Just the social willingness to talk to strangers.
I wish I could remember more of exactly what I said in the interactions since it was all positive last night. It's weird how sitting here now I kind of can't imagine being able to sustain a long conversation with a stranger and don't know what to say, but in the moment, I was on fire last night. I just remember lots of talking/flirting/and laughing on the girls part.

All of those interactions sounded really good - good stuff!

You really should have stayed, she was your type enough for you to go for the kiss twice, go back to hers & flirt with her. Fuck the taxi home,you could havefigured that out in the morning after a night of sex.

Yeah, after a few weeks since then of pretty much pure rejection, I am regretting my decision if truth be told!

My goal is to get laid once in 2017, and I think I may have threw my only shot away! D'oh!!

Nonsense - theres a new girl around every corner!

To get laid once is a pretty limiting & precise goal, that doesnt sound very confident. Why only once? Why not get laid 100 times?

More specifically, how about just aim to have as many flirty interactions with women your interested in & then see if the potential for sex arises afterwards? If all thats on your mind is getting laid you may come across as desperate & that goal puts a lot of pressure on you if you dont get sex- bothof which wont contributemuchtoward sex.

Had issues with this years ago.

Then i realised you don't really need to talk.

Just smile and do random stuff... watch loads of TV shows like friends, scrubs and just be like a TV sitcom for a bit.

When they ask what u do just brush em off... once u do this for about 5 mins and use kino u can start being normal

Stop talking, have fun

Dude, what? Lol. I ain't watching Friends and Scrubs for no fuck.


Peace,

kowalski

listen, that american sit com behaviour is now part of my personality.

I'm like a mix between

Chandler,
Ross,
peralta (brooklyn 99)
JD
Schmidt (new girl)

and a series of other stolen jokes from similar shows...

i have an arsenal of comebacks in so many scenarios... and sometimes... i mix comebacks...

Oh yea! Some call me the comeback mixer...(i dunno)

I'm too cool for that, bro.


Peace,

kowalski

Because I just can't force my brain to be completely illogical.

If i'm like 30 and have only slept with a few girls in my whole life despite my best efforts, on what basis would it be that I can convince myself that I can sleep with 100 girls in a year? I understand teh sentiment and the 'shoot for the moon' philosophy, but I think it'd be like a business who made 10k in year 1, 9k in year 2, 11k in year 3, and now they aer giving themselves a target to make 13 million in year 4!! - It just seems daft to me