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Default 03-07-2018, 09:25 PM

Today Brian got his ears treated. He really did not like it.


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Default 08-07-2018, 08:19 PM

An interesting day.

I approached two women, one stunner. With the stunner, a duo of likely looking lads spotted her as she walked past, I overheard one of them say "Oh yeah" or something to that effect.

That spurred me to approach. She had a great figure from behind, didn't see her face until I got in front of her but she had a face to match.

The approach itself was weak, I was on my bicycle so it was hard to get her to come to a complete stop, so she didn't.

I had to awkwardly twist around to keep talking to her, so all I managed was "Can I just say" then jestered to her figure and said "wow".

She embarrassedly said "thanks" but walked on.

The second one was walking along and I got her to stop, murmured a couple of lines but then she hooked and it was when she hooked I ran out of stuff to say and cut it short.

I think I might have stumbled up on someone who was single but when the moment counted I messed it up! I've had a few like that where after they hooked I didn't want to make them uncomfortable through awkward silences so I went out of consideration, but I should learn to stay in the set and embrace the moment.

A third possible approach that I did not do was 6 chicks sat outside a bar/restaurant enjoying the sunshine and cocktails.

I hung around for 20 minutes and nearly approached the group on a couple of occasions (I got that adrenaline rush feeling that you get when you commit) but couldn't quite do it.

The outdoor tables had a few groups of other people sat relaxedly at them, and by that I mean there wasn't a background of conversation to cover any awkward moments/harsh rejections.

Eventually some likely looking lads turned up and approached them. I don't know whether they might have known them or not, but they started talking to them, went away and then came back again.

I did think of waiting for the group of chicks to leave but I figured they might have already noticed me hanging gingerly around for the past 20 minutes so I thought that would be awkward if I approached them and they'd already noticed me milling around there.

Even though I didn't approach I felt like I almost did. I really almost did.

All six were quite good looking so my plan would have been to go for the lighthearted approach and say "Hi chicks" in an over the top manner and tell them all that I loved them.

I've not approached a table full of chicks except when I went to the uni in the dining hall, but that was a noisier environment so I didn't feel such a spotlight effect.

I felt like I almost did approach that table, but having all six of them looking at me and the people at the other outside tables kinda gave me stage fright.

Something to consider for next time.

If I can just go up and say Hi and let them lead the conversation or if it falls flat then so be it, at least I expressed an interest.

Been working half of Saturday recently so haven't had a Saturday session to set me up for Sunday which doesn't help.

But I'm happy with how it's going, gonna do a taster session with my coach in London soon which will be my first formal cold approach training.
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Default 11-07-2018, 08:03 PM

Approached a chick today in my biker gear, which I consider to make it extra hard.

Didn't make a "serious" approach, but made a "funny" one.

She seemed to be a young supervisor, no older than 22 I'd say.

She was talking with a collegue about pricing meat and I went up and got her attention, she thought I was gonna ask where something was but I decided to cut straight to the point

So "hesitated a bit and then blurted out "I love you". Her reaction was funny, she said "Awww, thanks" then just got back to the pricing meat conversation she was having with her colleague.

I was giggling to myself as I walked out, such was the hilarity of the whole situation.

So although not a serious approach, still quite an "out there" one and a nice awkward situation created.

I stayed in set for about 30 seconds whilst they talked about the meat pricing and then said "nice to meet you" to which I received a reply then went.

I had to pat myself on the back for making an out of state approach.

Then I saw this hot chick in Aldi but the sales assistant whom I've talked to before could see me so I didn't approach the Aldi one. Turns out she was foreign anyway so might have not understood my words.

Also had a quick conversation with some young girls in the chip shop about the football, but that was just a practice and they were quite rough looking anyway.

So all in all, a good effort for a work evening
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Default 15-07-2018, 06:57 PM

Sunday, 7 approaches.

Chick 1

First one was a chick I actually went to approach before, but she was crying so instead I asked her directions.

This time I saw her sitting, went to approach her and didn't realise until I got nearer that it was the chick that was crying from last time.

This time I went through with the compliment, so I think she knew from last time what I was gonna do. Anyway, after a little while, her boyfriend showed up (I think last time she had an argument with him that's why she was crying) and she introduced me to him and he was cool with it, which was a first.

So that was a good one, maintaining calmness when it got a bit awkward as another guy appeared. The boyfriend was cool about it, I said "I was just complimenting your lady" when he came over and he took it well.

So then with them both sat down I wished them a good day and carried on with my approaching.

Chick 2

I then went to a Tesco Express where I saw two unrelated hot chicks in one go.

The first one, I hesitated as I locked my bicycle up, then ran down the road after her.

I got in front and I was like "Wait up a minute" and she was like "no I'm fine thanks". And that was the end of that one, perhaps she had anxiety.

Chick 3

And then a worse rejection yet, there was this other one, which gave me strong IOI's, looking at me as I was leaned against the storefront chilling, but then when I approached her and got in front of her she acted really standoffish, like she was expecting me to attack her

So I was in front of her and she backed away and then went to one side a bit and then the other.

Very strange, she was even more anxious than the other one.

So instead of carrying on with the compliment and asked her directions instead and got out of there sharpish.

Chick 4

After the two bad rejections in a row, I decided I would go to a different place in the town, whereby I would find some more targets.

I spotted one and stopped her in front of a coffee shop with various people sat at the tables (it was about 1200 in the day). She stopped which showed good compliance but then when I said "Wow" and gestured to her figure she was like "No thanks" and shot off straight away.

So that was three harsh rejections in a row.

I still get that shaky leg feeling after rejections which I don't like. It makes me feel like I've been assaulted so it's understandable why I don't like it.

And a chick stopping nicely and saying "I have a boyfriend" isn't what I am talking about. It's the ones that act like you are a rapist that make me feel bad.

Anyway

Chick 5

Probably the most attractive and youngest of the day, a chick dressed in tight sports gear, I was like "wait up" she stopped, I lifted my sunglasses and then said "I must get to know you more".

Then she said "I've got a boyfriend though, sorry" and I said to that "I didn't know" whilst maintaining calmness throughout.

Then she recognised someone else in town (a young male of about 17-18) and he came over just as she was saying she had a boyfriend and he was like "I'm not him" almost apologetically, so therefore becoming a temporary wing man in a way.

But that was like three nasty rejections in a row until getting a nice stop if nothing else. I could tell the chick was into it.

Chick 6

Then I continued down the road, saw two chicks walking and then said "I love you" to the hot one, she didn't stop but sarcastically said "thanks"

I am sure I did 7 but there is one I can't remember.

Anyway, I pushed through this one, was working half of Saturday so couldn't build up the momentum so to approach 7 on the Sunday was good.

And it isn't exactly a target rich environment where I am gaming either. That string of rejections after the first one made me wonder if I'd put on some chick repellent instead of sun cream!

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Default 22-07-2018, 05:03 PM

First cold approach session since having sex with a prostitute on the Saturday and having a quick masturbation and ejaculation session on the Sunday.

Did I notice a difference in anxiety? Did I hell, I knew it was all bollocks but just wanted to see for myself. If anything I felt more relaxed and jovial when approaching after having had sex and a wank.

Anyway, five approaches, two of them milestone approaches.

First was in Primark, a solid, confident approach, she had a boyfriend but appreciated the gesture.





Second was in town, I paid the compliment and she said "Thanks!" but kept on walking. Didn't yad stop due to the last one I tried having the opposite effect.





Third (and this one was the first milestone one) was a mixed set, two chicks with a guy sat outside a highstreet pub.

I went over to the table and addressed him directly, and jokingly said "I love your girlfriends" and then gestured to each of them and said "wow".

This was all the while with other people sat at tables nearby witnessing the whole event

He wasn't offering anything and although remaining civil, I could tell from his body language that he wasn't amused so I calmly said "nice to meet you anyway" and wished him a nice day before sauntering off down the high street.

What I couldn't figure out was how to involve the ladies in the conversation. I mean, I felt it best to address the elephant in the room head on with the guy, but once I had done that I wasn't sure how to get talking to the ladies.

Anyway I only did that because I knew they weren't both his girlfriends, so it was a way of finding out whether they were or not. But the conversation didn't go that way and I didn't want to make him angry so I took control and ended the set on my terms.





Fourth approach was me running after a chick, telling her to wait up (she didn't quite hear me correctly) but then when I complimented her as she was walking away she turned back with a smile to see me standing there (I try to make a rule of not following, as it appears needy). So that was okay, appreciated at least.





Fifth approach was a two set, I was unsure of age but I heard someone talking about "something rather something rather 21st birthday", so I figured they were around 21.

This was the second milestone in that I REapproached them.

I did not yad stop them due to my bad experience last week where the chick acted like I was gonna assault her.

Instead I opened them from the side. They did not stop the first time, so I gave them some space and then re approached again.

This was in front of a busy coffee shop and mall security by the way

The second time I reapproached I could see at least one of them smiling and blushing.

I quickly said something along the lines of "I love you both, I'd like to get to know you"

But they still didn't stop.

So I jokingly said "nice to meet you" and then closed with a "Bye!" which they replied to as well.

So although I couldn't get them to stop, I still approached and then reapproached in front of everyone. And I could tell they appreciated the reapproach as well.





So that's 5 approaches which counts towards another tick in the box and now I have far exceeded my initial goal of 50 approaches and I'm probably on more like 100 since I stopped counting individual approaches and only count successes now.

I'm starting to feel addicted to the thrill and validation once I get into state although I need to be able to approach when I'm out of state.





I'm sure I felt a lot less nervous since having sex and allowing myself to masturbate again, but when I am tired I still get inside my head too much.

Hopefully I can keep this momentum going as I don't ever want to go back to being shy of women. I just want to live in the moment and express myself instead of being in the shadows. I want these fun little interactions even if I don't get laid from it.




From what I noticed today, none of my targets felt uncomfortable or "weirded out". I put that down to being more relaxed and as a side effect being able to approach in a more natural/light hearted manner. And also having had sex the day before and a wank in the morning. And also dropping that god awful "yad stop" where you get right in front of them which seems a recipe for disaster in this day and age.



So yeah, once I get to approach on Saturdays again I'll be back approaching at full capacity

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Saw three hot chicks today, was taking train to work instead of motorcycle due to unforeseen circumstances.

First one first thing in the morning after leaving train station, didn't approach, too inside my head, watched her walking off into the distance. Felt gut wrenching.

There was no one else about either.

Second one on my way back from work to the train station, wasn't sure how old as after school time but she wasn't wearing a uniform and was tall. There was also a man walking behind her whom I initially thought might have been her boyfriend but when I got closer I could see he was in his 40s so he wasn't.

By that time I was too up in my head about the whole thing anyway =/

Watched her again walk off into the distance with guy following close behind her.

Third one was in Sainsbury's back in my local town, thought she was cute, went to open but words didn't come out due to not feeling up to going direct, so we just ended up exchanging glances.

Then went back to reapproach but pretended to think she worked there as an opener and asked her where something was.

She was not impressed and said she didn't know.

Reapproached and told her I'd found the something.

Okay I didn't make it clear I fancied her but at least I spoke to her. She was the cutest I've seen all day, petite little tanned brunette thing. Early 30s maybe?

Just perfect, but I wasn't up to it, it's only Tuesday for crying out loud!



Next opportunity I get this week I'll be going in for the kill.
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Default 24-07-2018, 07:39 PM

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And also dropping that god awful "yad stop" where you get right in front of them which seems a recipe for disaster in this day and age.
It's a god-awful approach if you fuck it up. You do it too close to them and it'll startle them. You give plenty of room and this doesn't happen.

I've stopped hundreds of girls this way and it's not only my personal favourite way to approach but once you get it right most girls like it a lot.

It does take them by surprise but once you've got their attention and they know what's happening it's all good.


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Default 24-07-2018, 08:18 PM

Brian really hates the sound of my footsteps when he's on the leash sneaking through dry leaves and fallen twigs. I totally give his location away.


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Brian really hates the sound of my footsteps when he's on the leash sneaking through dry leaves and fallen twigs.
Cats hate everything


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Default 24-07-2018, 08:32 PM

I don't think you really know any cats.

Green Room is a great movie. Yo!

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