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Default Welsh Bar lady - 28-11-2017, 05:11 PM

Hi guys, I'm new to the community and this is my first post. (We were all new once right?) Anyways, I've not even finished reading "The game" (3/4 of the way through) and I decided to put what I had picked up from it (So far) into action.

Just to put you into perspective. I'm away with the British Army in a small camp in Wales. It was in the bar on camp where I met this one girl (The bar maid) who at first sight I became interested in. The bar is full of men. No females at all and about 30 plus males. No apparent AMOG's as such, there's another girl behind the bar also "the obstacle". She's nice enough mind you. I've already been here a week, so I've managed to establish some reputation with the said target and the bar staff in general. Of them at least recognising me at least

So yesterday. Whilst attending this cock-fest of a place, I decided to enter what I class as my first set.

I entered the place, and greeted the obstacle. It was a busy bar and the target was serving others at the time. I smiled at her, she smiled back and greeted me with the "How are you" line. The place bar was busy at the time, we exchanged some pleasantries. She looked really happy to see me. Our coco was cut short by a waiting coustmer. I took my drink and sat down.

On my next approach, which I approached timed so the bar was quiet. I told her I saw her in her office today, sitting at her computer. Stroking her beard like Ming from Flash Gordon. She laughed. As I was about to line up another neg the obstacle approached and asked for her to help with some food she was cooking. She smiled at me and as I didn't want to appear needy I told I'll speak to her in a bit and left with my fresh drink.

As I sat down she came around wiping tables. At this point I struck up an "actual conversation" with her. Finding out she lived in the nearest town. I asked her about her weekend, she said it was great but didn't look overly enthusiastic about the statement which I pointed out. She laughed and said "well it's here, isn't it?" I told her how this place has a bubble around it and it always rains here. She agreed and then the obstacle approached the table. She shot off. I stuck up a convo with the obstacle. For the primary aim of not making things akward. I gathered at this point she must be the manager or some shit of this penis ridden place.

I finished my drink. At this time the bar had cleared apart from 3 guys sitting in a corner. The target and obstacle were behind the bar. I decided to "grow a pair" and this would be my first set and a Two-set it would be.

I approached the pair behind the bar. The target smiled at me. I opened with negs. Telling her she's so Welsh and from the valleys she even sound like a sheep and the classic her nose wiggled when she laughs. As crap as these were, she was laughing along too. And so was the obstacle. The target asked me how long I* was here for, which I took as and IOI. Then after a bit of chit chat, I ignored the target and found out the obstacle was from Swansea. I told her about the night I lost my car keys in Swansea 200 miles away from home at a football match and how I enjoyed how the people treat me in my time of need. They were both smiling and laughing along. This was my attempt at a Demonstration of Value. Yeah...... Blew that one. I thought of the pick a number between one and ten routine, but don't have the minerals in case it failed.

At the end of my little story* the remaining guys left the bar and I was the only person in their. Golden opportunity right? Wrong. I asked them if they wanted me to leave so they could lock up and get home. They both said "No it's fine, we've got to clean up first" I said ok and left the bar to sit on my own and watch the news.

I finished my drink. A little tipsy by this point in my own admission. I waited for the opportunity to be the nice guy and returned my glasses to the bar.

At my surprise, the target was cashing up when I got to the bar, so was quite distracted counting change. "Target isolated" I thought to myself. I handed my 2 glasses from the table over and she said "Thank you, goodnight".......... I was ready with the little game I have to lead this into another direction. I thought her smiling, laughing and listening to me were IOI's? They may well have been. I bottled it and crumbled. I said "have a nice evening" and left.

That's where I'm at.

She may have been "Just being nice" as "It's her job". But they may have been genuine IOI's. I will be in the bar again and so will she at some point. I don't know if I've blown it or either how to escalate things here.

I get the impression she's into me. But I don't quite know.

I'm a believer in listen then speak. I wanted to aquire as much knowledge as I could before I went in and started sarging. But it turns out I have little clue and am an average AFC.

Any feedback on this would be much appreciated. Especially on how I can turn this around. Have I now blown it with this HB or is it redeemable?

I will get better at this. That's a promise. I'd also like to have a nice Welsh lady on my arm as I do it as well.

AFC I know.

Many thanks all in advance.
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