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Default Day game graft diary! - 22-09-2017, 08:38 AM

Hello! I just thought I'd make a thread on here of my day game adventures, mainly for self reflection and to keep myself on track.

Sometimes, it's easy to focus on the negatives, so this is a way to keep reminding myself of the successes I've had.

Feel free to chip in at any point, I'm open to feedback.
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Default 22-09-2017, 07:03 PM

I went out for around an hour or so today in a local town by me, first of all I had to fix a flat tyre by the road which wasn't a f*cking ideal start to the day, anyway around 40 minutes later job done, find a parking spot and crack on.

After washing my hands I noticed my vibe wasn't good after the annoyance of the flat tyre, I just thought to myself get a few approaches out of the way and I'll start to loosen up.

I saw a fair skinned red head coming towards me, I'd actually seen her as I was parking the car and noticed how naturally beautiful she was. I opened her, she stopped, took the compliment well smiled, said something like 'I don't even have any make-up on, but thanks'. Chat went back and forth, I wasn't in the groove at all, she filled a gap with 'I have a boyfriend'. This was still early in the interaction, from past experiences, it's a brush off and they want out. I kind of expected it because of my vibe and my first few of the day are never the most smooth, in hindsight I would have loved to of spoken to her later in the day after a few more approaches.

Anyway, on we go, I did a few more approaches, some I wasn't feeling but just wanted to get warmed up so I was approaching girls that I wouldn't normally. The town I was in, is not heavily populated so you have to sacrifice quality for quantity. Each rejection I could feel myself getting more and more carefree.

Then, I was walking towards a girl, decent looking, nice body shape, she looked once, down at the floor, looked again, looked to the side and then the third time I opened her just as we passed, it's worth noting I didn't and never do look away from the girl. Masculine dominant eye contact. I knew how interested she was, so I went easy on the opener, 'you look interesting' she laughed. We chatted back and forth, 'do you do this all the time?' she asked. 'Only to the really hot girls' further back and forth, number close, interestingly I said take my number and text me. Not something I usually do, but to be honest I wasn't that bothered if she didn't text, plus it sets the immediate tone of her chasing me slightly.

Few more good interactions and more rejections, nothing to write home about. Broke up the day by going into a shop to check out some clothes, I do this often if I feel I need a bit of a break from doing the same loops, also genuinely looking at clothes and also you see occasionally hot women.

That's exactly what happened, I spotted this female, looking pretty damn hot, high heels, glamorous, wag like. Not my usual favourite type, but no doubt she was striking. I walk past her ask the shop assistant a question, out of my peripheral vision I see the HB notice me and change her direction of walk towards me, bingo!

I walk off, circle back, see her, walk towards her and open, I can see how surprised she is, but seems to really like what's happening, we chat quite quietly almost whispering because of the other people all around. She's Polish which I guess this without her telling me, I tell her some story about my mates getting drunk in krakow! Then I notice some of the shoppers become aware of what's going on, which is distracting knowing others are glaring and pointing right in my eye line. I find it difficult to stay completely present in the interaction when this happens. So I decide to go for the close, she shows me her wedding ring, 'I'm married' I know she was interested, so I say I don't want to be your husband. She laughs and says thanks so much. It doesn't go any further. I think I could have gotten her number if I'd of persisted with more vibing and rapport. I don't normally graft in shops, but after today I may start doing a bit more.

Few more blowouts, then decided to call it a day the weather had taken a turn for the worse and I was in a t-shirt. So I headed back to the car, I spotted a nice looking natural young female, opened her, went well, really receptive. Chatted back and forth, teased her about various topics she brought up, just playful stuff. She liked it, number close off I went.

Decent day hour or so, overall it definitely wasn't my best day, but I'm learning how to get myself back into the groove which I wasn't good at the start. It's so important to keep on interacting even if things don't start off well. It only takes one smile or thanks from a girl to change your whole day and get the ball rolling.
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Default 22-09-2017, 07:53 PM

Humble,

Nice one for taking the opportunity to go out there and just crack on, whatever your mood and circumstance today.

Sounds like you had a decent run in, too. Has that girl text you since?

Have you set yourself a target on how many opens to do a day?

Was thinking of starting at like 5.
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Default 23-09-2017, 02:00 PM

Having a numeric goal like that which depends on factors outside of yourself is a bad type of goal.

What if you go outside and there aren't any humans around? You can only approach x number of people if there are x number of people available to approach.


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Default 23-09-2017, 03:30 PM

Fair play on the shop bit.

Reminds me of myself, the time I was out chatting up chicks during the day.

Ok I'm gunna do it again.


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Default 23-09-2017, 06:19 PM

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Humble,

Nice one for taking the opportunity to go out there and just crack on, whatever your mood and circumstance today.

Sounds like you had a decent run in, too. Has that girl text you since?

Have you set yourself a target on how many opens to do a day?

Was thinking of starting at like 5.
Cheers, the girl I gave my number to didn't text. Genuinely wasn't too fussed for a few reasons when we chatted.

Ideally you want to be aiming for around 30 approaches per week to get good solid learning experience.

Just got your message, I'll WhatsApp you later man.
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Default 23-09-2017, 06:19 PM

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Fair play on the shop bit.

Reminds me of myself, the time I was out chatting up chicks during the day.

Ok I'm gunna do it again.

Thanks man.
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Default 23-09-2017, 06:20 PM

Got out today in Manchester for a few hours, pretty solid day, will update later
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Default 23-09-2017, 10:38 PM

30 sounds like a solid amount. Guess it'll become easier when I progress and gain experience; all about making it a routine and then lifestyle.

Yes, feel free to give me a shout.
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Default 23-09-2017, 10:51 PM

It's not how goal setting works.


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