Met girl in the street asked her number got it real one then walked together.
started complimenting me on my physic. Everything going smooth i was massaging her neck even touched her ass. Before i left she said "ill call you". 4 days later calling/texting no answer. Wtf happened? I'm on nofap false hope are harsh.

A woman has too many options these days ...apps , online dating , guys hitting on her evert inevitable she goes out ....I would guess you didn't build enough attraction with her or make an impact

I leaved because I dont believe insta date besides in drinking hollidays like spain or thailand so I kept it short.
Im not used to insta date, find it hard to build attraction on it in my country paris France,
Im starting to think that it is the thing to do if you want to close à girl outside social circle now.
I am 26 and feel social média are ruining prospects since 2011.
What do you think guyz?

alexander83
Understand what you have said but.
Why compliments then ? That's what I dont understand why leting touch her?
Usualy dont got problems but I feel Something is going wrong even for +8+7 guyz
Dating changed

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This happens all the time when the girl is hot.

In the moment she loved it but then went back to logical.

She probably thought "I don't even know this guy, I have only spent x amount of minutes with him and cause he approached me on the street I don't fully trust him"

With the follow up text/call you need to build trust and safety with her, don't try to get too far too soon. Convey as much as possible being a friendly and trustworthy person, not someone who is just going to fuck her and leave. She has 10 other fit, well-enamoured guys ready on Tinder willing to do that.

Be the person that she can trust then when you meet gradually start the process of seduction..building kino and strong eye contact and calibrating her attraction levels (backing off when necessary). You need an emotional connection to stand out (that is why teasing and pushing buttons is such a popular way of building attraction, it's not saying these things that build attraction but the emotional connection that results from the "problem then reconciliation" process you two go through together...think about any girlfriends you had in the past this is the process you went through to strengthen your relationship). You need to create drama: a jealousy plot line with another girl (either on your phone or real life)..although this feels mean, like it or not this is what creates attraction because her identity is now invested in you.

or maybe she just got back with her ex.

maybe the guy she was dating made it official.

i dropped like 3 girls without a text or anything last girl i got with, they probably tried to work out the science...

there was none... i just became unavailable and all the girls where boss, just not the one i settled for.

U can't beat history. if u did everything right, chance is its not about you...

so don't stress...

and if it was...

u will learn. so don't stress.