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Default 30-03-2017, 03:26 PM

Wow I haven't posted since October...

I am making great progress in working on what I will accept and won't accept. For the most part this has usually been me voting with my feet, if I don't like something I'd just walk away, but recently I've focused on not accepting that behaviour by calling somebody out on it immediately (both diplomatically and less-so as the situation demands). Ex. colleague doing something without realising it makes my life harder, let them know what they're doing and ask the to change it, usually works fine.
Supposedly meeting a girl who texts me 5-10mins before we're supposed to meet cancelling for a caught at work/friend upset emergency, I'll tell them its a really shitty thing outright and if they seem sorry I'll let them make it up to me otherwise I'll cut that shit out.
I find it harder sometimes than other depending on my headspace at the time but it's making good progress.

Last month I realised that with the 2 regular girls I was seeing for a couple of months there were feelings developing and getting trodden on so I cut my ties with them before it ended on bad terms. This worked in my favour as it enabled me to re-focus on where I was headed and what I wanted and follow some pursuits I'd let fall by the wayside.

I've got a new apartment closer to downtown Montreal that I'll move into in June. I'm excited to be better placed and loads cheaper but also sad to leave my current apartment as it's pretty bad ass with nice balconies and a fireplace.

My most recent encounter was last Sunday with a cute girl with short hair on the underground. She kept looking at me across the carriage. I found myself nervous to walk straight over and chat to her so when she got up for her stop, I stood too, big smiles and told her that she had beautiful hair, she thanked me so I gave her a card with my number and told her to text me if she wanted.
She text me later that day and we're grabbing a coffee this Saturday...


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Default 06-04-2017, 09:15 PM

Not much to report... Coffee went well, which became drinks the day after then sex.
I have a wood burning fireplace in my apartment which I love and despite me finding it incredibly cheesey I'm still blown away by the amount of girls who want to be fucked in front of a roaring fire.

My French is coming on although isn't as fluent as I'd like given the level of English of everyone around. I can pretty much talk in French and use an English word or phrase when stuck. It's actually strange to have very Frenglish dates/social activities but refreshing.


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Default 15-07-2017, 11:59 PM

So I haven't posted in a while just because my steps have been that small that it felt stupid just telling about a chick who hooked up or rejected me.

I have made steps at looking at the motivation of my communication. I am correcting myself when talking if I feel that I am telling something they want to hear rather than what I want to say. This happens more when talking to my boss and to potential lovers.

2 things that I have found have made massive differences to my "game" this year:
Feeling Confident - I have some shirts that I only fit when I am in shape. Because I know this - when I'm wearing those shirts, I feel good and that confidence exudes through my actions in a placebic manner

Swing dancing - I swear down, every guy with AA or problems with chatting up girls should do this. You are in an environment with usually more girls than guys. You become accustomed to having physical contact with people, women and hot women. Finally you haver to ask your partner to dance and unless you're a weird hairy crossdresser (and even if you are) they will say yes.
I started this a little while ago and the difference this has made to my confidence and game is untrue. It helps you to feel natural leading a woman too...


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Default 17-07-2017, 12:10 AM

Hey man I feel the same regarding posting stuff. There's many nights I go out but don't "report" it cos I don't think it's necessary. Like last night I was out & although I chatted to a few hotties, nothing major happened so it's a waste of time talking about it. Plus I just wasn't feeling it last night.

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I am correcting myself when talking if I feel that I am telling something they want to hear rather than what I want to say.
That's how I try to roll too. It's fake as fuck saying stuff you don't want to just because you're trying to get laid. I'm sure Kowalski can elaborate on this point with deeper wordsmithery than I can.

In fact, next weekend when I'm out I plan to say exactly what I am thinking, to every girl I speak with.


As for the shirts thing. I remember 2 years ago buying a bunch of 15'5 slim fit shirts that I was way too fat for. I got them knowing that I'd fit into them one day. Then I lost the beer gut & fitted those shirts.

Now my problem is that those shirts are getting too small around the top half, because of the increasing muscle mass. I think one day soon I'm going to turn around & the shirt will just burst open.


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Default 21-07-2017, 02:54 PM

So the other night I went home with a chica and I was pretty drunk. So after working my magic and giving her the best 20 seconds of her night, I head off to the bathroom.

After doing what I had to do I couldn`t find her room as the hallway was wobbling a bit, it was dark and everything looked the same. I decide to regroup in what looked like a doorway into the living room.

Fortunately she came to find me when her roommate started shouting because a drunk naked Englishman was wandering around her room


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Default 30-07-2017, 03:41 PM

Marijuana

The past 18 months have really opened up my eyes to the joy of pot. I`ve found that overall it makes me sluggish for the following 48-72hrs so it`s something I`ll save for when I dont have to work the next day and especially when I`m not alone as it becomes a sleep aid.

The best experience I find is during sex, particularly when the girl I`m with is also partaking (I am yet to use when the girl isn`t although it would be interesting)
So far I`m yet to have a poor experience of weed and sex unlike I have had with alcohol.

I`m not very good at scoring so I have mainly had to rely on friends to hook me up although recently one of my FWBs deals a little so I buy from her.

Our next bank holiday here is the first weekend of September, so I`m going to get some mushrooms and see what happens there...


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Default 30-07-2017, 10:51 PM

I haven't smoked weed since new years eve 2008.

The only thing I've missed is laughing my balls off at nothing and the munchies.


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Default 31-07-2017, 05:40 PM

How glib.

You've also missed its protective benefits, like protection against and or delay of the onset of Alzheimer's, improved insulin response meaning a healthier metabolism and lower incidence of diabetes and obesity, protection against concussions and brain trauma... and like a hundred more things already proven, many related to its anti inflammatory properties.

Then you've also been missing out on the increased creativity and verbal fluency that has also now been shown in various studies, stress relief, improved recovery from traumatic events, etc.

Yes, it is also fun and sometimes you get the munchies... though with the improved insulin response people who enjoy weed are generally slimmer.


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Default 31-07-2017, 07:18 PM

I just couldn't deal with the paranoia any longer.

I wouldn't have a care in the world, then smoke a few strong reefers and half an hour later you're stressed to the balls with anxiety for seemingly no reason.

While we're at it, tomorrow marks 7 years since I gave up the various amphetamines I used.


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Default 01-08-2017, 03:44 AM

I'm a pretty minor user. I probably average maybe a joint per week so it has a minimal impact on my life especially in comparison to alcohol.

I think like anything it can have positive and negative effects depending on use. For me it is positive.

Tomorrow I'm off to Newfoundland. It's as if Canada and Ireland had a baby in island form. They have an awesome accent, a lot of history and a great social scene. I'm looking forward to having some interesting stuff to drop when I get back.


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