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Default 12-06-2017, 05:51 PM

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Fuck that's annoying
I assume there wasn't any other potential girls in the same bar to socialise with while she did her socializing ?
Diverted attention works wonders
It was mostly older people, & any younger girls seemed to be with guys, but they weren't that hot anyways....

Neither were the girls.


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Default 19-06-2017, 11:25 AM

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... short blonde... I collected her in my car... had me slapping her face & choking her... I can basically do whatever I want to her... Going to keep her around for the foreseeable future.
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I drove... to collect her, she was at a pub... kept getting drinks brought to her... After an hour... I was getting increasingly agitated... I told her I was leaving, and that she looked like she'd rather stay... She said "if you wanna go I'll come over to yours later" I said yeah that's probably not gunna happen... I'd actually allowed this to happen.

She didn't show... I'd already decided it was done between us anyway.
Possessive? She ain't your girlfriend, man.

I think you should chill on this. What are you to her and her to you? A girl I was fucking a year ago said a thing that made me think. I used to have rules for open relations and was pissy about something she'd done when we were out. She said "Lee. You try to put doors in the forest."

There were other options, Dan...

Why not chill and hang out with her there? Is it that you couldn't drink because driving? What's an 8 mile taxi gonna rinse the both of you halved? What's the option on staying at hers?

If you decide to go because you don't like the situation, just leave and be indifferent about it. Say why you are going "I can't drink with the car and want to get rid of it" she might offer up a solution. If not, then just give her a kiss and leave. No need for static.

You could still be destroying that pussy if you didn't let yourself become frustrated to the point where it was obvious and verbally stated and then you blamed that in part on her!


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Default 20-06-2017, 06:13 AM

Ok so I'll elaborate with all the relevant detail on the whole situation/scenario.

I asked her if she'd like to watch the boxing with me that night. We agreed this the weekend before as we were both too occupied to meet that week.

I told her at about 5pm that Saturday that I'd be over to pick her up soon & she called me to tell me what pub she was in. That I should call her when I get to town & she'll come out & meet me.

So I get there & call a few times. No answer no texts back. So after considerable hesitation as to whether I should go into the bar or not (I'll explain why a little later) I decided I would. So I parked up & went in.

I entered & spotted her sat on a stool in the centre of the bar. She spotted me too & I walked over & gave her a hug & a kiss & of course shared our pleasantries etc etc.

She encouraged me to have a drink whilst she finished hers. So after deliberating I had one weak ass Kopparberg, cos I don't like even having one whilst driving. She'd been there from 2pm & was drunk.

Anyways, I drank it & she drank hers. She introduced me to her gay friend, who had brought over more drinks. I was chatting with him. She was chatting away with other random guys she'd met that day. Which was cool, as far as I was concerned she was leaving with me. I chatted with the lads myself & one of them was actually pretty sound.

Got introduced to her nephew then, who brought more drinks.

There was bunch of people coming & going, fellas & girls, who she was socialising with. After a while of this was when I began feeling a little annoyed, for a couple of reasons..

One - I felt it was a bit disrespectful that she would spend ages ignoring me to chat shit with people.

Two - Continuing to drink & order drinks whilst I was continuing to wait.


There's further reasons why I couldn't & wouldn't stay there with her..

One - I wanted to get back to my place for 8pm because there was Belfast lads that I know boxing on sky sports. So at quarter to eight was when I asked her once again if she was coming. She hesitated & that's when I said she looked like she'd prefer to stay.

Two - In addition to all this, I was in an extremely uncomfortable & even unsafe environment for me.

Why? The town she lives in is one where someone like me is particularly unwelcome. I'm talking about the Protestant & Catholic thing here. Obviously I'm not religious or care about that stuff, but in that town they do, & there were many lads in that vicinity that would have taken exception to a Catholic being there. Perhaps to the point of being attacked, especially with drinks flowing.


So yeah it did seem like I overreacted a bit with my rant on here, but there was more to it. I spent an hour & a half in an extremely uncomfortable environment for nothing, only to be disrespected on top of it.

It's cool though, I did learn something from it.

I'm unsure if we'll see each other again but I honestly don't care if we don't. I'm living in the moment & all that shit.

Filthy sex yes, but she's not the only girl who likes filth. You know as well as I do that when they're turned on enough they're all up for doing things they wouldn't normally do, or say they wouldn't do.


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Default 20-06-2017, 07:58 AM

I don't think that detail makes any difference.

I'll try again...

What if it was Murphy? Exact same situation, but one of your boys. Would you have acted the same and now never be hanging out with Murphy again? Then later Paddy is asking you why you don't hang out with Murphy no more and would you say "Well for one, Paddy, I felt it was a bit disrespectful that Murphy would spend ages ignoring me to chat shit with people"?


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Default 20-06-2017, 01:35 PM

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What if it was Murphy? Exact same situation, but one of your boys. Would you have acted the same and now never be hanging out with Murphy again? Then later Paddy is asking you why you don't hang out with Murphy no more and would you say "Well for one, Paddy, I felt it was a bit disrespectful that Murphy would spend ages ignoring me to chat shit with people"?
I'm waiting for the punchline to this joke .... hope it's a belter!


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Default 20-06-2017, 03:33 PM

Example...

In November, when McGregor was fighting Alvarez. I invited a mate & his girl up to watch it. He started being a prick & arguing, fighting with her. Which in turn came to me & him arguing & resulted in physically fighting.

I was fuming that he came up to my home to start a row & attempt to wreck the place. Cunts got issues.

Anyways, I told him & his bird afterwards that we were done. Not me & her, I was still her friend, but not him.

Then in February I was on fb for a week or 2 when I decided to tell him he was forgiven.

He apologised & all that. Said he was afraid to get back in contact as he was ashamed of himself etc. I told him to forget it.

Having said that. It's highly unlikely that he'll ever be through my door again. I can forget what happened, but there's major boundaries. I haven't seen him since. We only usually got together when McGregor fights anyway.

It's about cutting negative cunts out for good.

K you advised me once back in 2013 around the time when that dumb bitch I know tried to smuggle drugs from Peru, that I should completely disassociate from everyone I know.

Since then I have distanced myself from anyone who isn't good for me as I've grown professionally & as a person.

You'll probably say this isn't relevant to what happened with this bird but I think it's a fair representation of where my mind's at in regards to putting up with bullshit.


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Default 20-06-2017, 06:39 PM

You keep saying a lot of shit about nothing that's relevant. I asked questions. Many of them. You avoided answering all of them.

Answer the questions​, Dan.


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Default 21-06-2017, 04:09 AM

I never avoided any questions I answered them all. I gave the reasons why I couldn't stay there & yeah even if I wanted, I couldn't drink cos I was driving (no, leaving my car there wasn't going to happen). That's aside from the fact I was in such an unsafe place.

I said it all above.

Ok I didn't respond to your analogy about Murphys law. Yes I would still have left if it was my mate. As a huge boxing fan I wasn't going to miss a lad I know winning his first world title. So I was leaving either way.

However, I guess you got me on the fact that if it was my mate, I'd hardly be never seeing him again over it. Perhaps I was a bit too dicky about that. But I did feel she was taking the piss, hence why I was annoyed. I never told her to piss off or anything, & I did kiss her before I left. But she said she would come over & she never arrived.

You're not a guy who takes shit either & I don't believe for a second you'd sit uncomfortably waiting for a girl when you felt the piss was being taken.

Maybe I will see her again or maybe I won't. But I don't really care if I do or I don't.


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Default 31-07-2017, 11:39 PM

Very disappointed with myself.

I was at the other side of Belfast this evening returning a damaged bookcase for another one. At the counter, the blonde lady in front of me was the sexiest woman I've seen in a long time.

She had bright blonde eye catching hair, done with a few curls at ends. She wore heels with dark black tights. The cream coat she had on went down over her skirt, to the point it looked like she didn't have a skirt on (perhaps​ she didn't).

I ain't been gobsmacked by beauty in this way in ages.

I got my receipt quick and left the store as quick as I could, hoping to see the girl but not having a clue what I was going to do.

I got to my car & she's sat in her car 2 spaces away. She had the window down and was checking her notifications. I threw the bookcase in the boot of my car & wanted to go over to her. I wanted to literally tell her exactly what I thought.

I stood there for about 30 seconds pretending to do shit on my phone, then jumped in my car. She was still sitting there taking a selfie, probably for snapchat.

I drove past & looked right at her. As I left the car park I started thinking about what might have happened if I'd grew a set & spoke to her.

I copped out & it was a seriously gutting feeling.

So why did I even post about this failure? Well for exactly that reason, that it's a fail, & I'm not gunna allow it to happen again.


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Default 24-09-2017, 07:11 PM

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Next one was a cute blonde that I was checking out after we passed each other in the street, & then I just turned & went for it. She was the most appreciative of all the girls today, like "what, really, me?" Which added to her cuteness, plus she was actually cuter upfront too. I said yeah you, I just ditched my mate down the street to come back & talk to you. She's from Armagh & I'm from Tyrone, neighbouring counties but famously rivals in football, so I made a few jokes about that. She has a good sense of humour too, on my level. We talked & joked for about 5 minutes & then I said I might invite her out sometime (this was after she told me she doesn't live here & was only here for a short while) & she said yeah ok, maybe. I took my phone out & got her number. She said she couldn't wait to meet her friends & tell them all about the random guy who came up to her in the street & chatted her up. The only thing I regretted about the interaction was when I was saying goodbye I didn't kiss her & instead lightly rubbed her upper arm, but as I did that i am almost certain she was expecting me to kiss her. I kicked myself for 10/15 minutes after that, because I was thinking it would have been a nice little touch to add to the story she told her friends, & I felt bad I didn't provide her with that... But anyways, maybe I'll get the chance to kiss her another time.
I'm going on a date this week with this girl, who I YAD STOPPED almost 3 years ago to the day (the post is from 27/9/14). Which yes I know sounds hilarious.

What happened back then is that the texting simply fizzled out.

What happened now is that I just went through my contacts a few weeks ago randomly adding girls on Snapchat whose numbers I had.

I woke up the next morning to a Snapchat message from her saying "Hi Mr Danny, do we know each other?"

I can't remember exactly what we said but it was light-hearted and based around the day I stopped her. To which she replied "Yes I definitely remember you because you're the only guy who has ever approached me in that way!" (which is a reminder of how special being approached during the day must be, to some women at least).

She's a sexy, classy but down to earth blonde. No kids. Great body. Two years older than me and if all goes well for her this week she'll be a bank manager. She's got her shit together.

She was on a date last week with a guy, and hesitant at my initial proposal to take her out, in favour of giving the guy a chance (which shows loyalty, which I told her).

To my benefit, the guy fucked up. He matched with her friend on Tinder and despite him requesting blondie here not to mess him around, as he wouldn't mess her around, he was offering to take the friend away for a weekend within a few minutes.

Of course, he's now history.

Since then we've been snapping and texting and have arranged to go for a pizza this week. Then if all goes well I'll take her out properly on Saturday.

We seem to get quite well and she keeps revealing things about herself that are getting me increasingly more interested; she's a trained actress (rolepay), she has a dirty mouth (filthy sex talk) amongst others.

Let's see what happens.


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