'It doesn't matter about the result, all that matters is taking action'

I am going to internalise this. That way, it is impossible for me to 'lose' as I have won the battle with myself, with the fear.[/quote]

Amen to that my friend.

I like reading your FR's. You haven't in the past seemed to have too much trouble grinding with girls in nightclubs. Just out of interest how do you go about doing it? I for one am not comfortable with the idea of just grabbing a girl and dry-humping her with lots of people around.

I usually hold out my hand if she takes it I spin her a couple of times then lead her off the dance floor for a chat. At 30, grinding girls to Rn'Bullshit in a club just ain't my scene.