Hey Kowalski

I know i have one-itis. I've gone out a few times daygame and in the night and chatted to lots, maybe 20 sets over the past 30 days. I see it as practice for when the opportunity to meet my ex arises again.

Her last memories of me before we split were of a weak guy doing poorly in life and negative about things. I am now doing much better and am beating back the depression everyday. I am on the up.

I think I have 2 choices here, seeing as it is about building value and respect again 1) 'engineer' a bumping into her, which I have no idea how to do, 2) email her at work, saying that I'm now working with an ex-colleague of hers whcih reminded me of her and then ask an inoccuous question to do with professional issues - then if she replies don't push for anything, a simple hope you're well, thank you.

I realise it's a very long shot. I realise I am wasting so much time on this one and has been months without any action. But I was never happier in my whole life than when with this one.

If you had to try for this one, what would you do? Don't say "I wouldn't"!