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Default Ex advice what would you do to re-attract - 17-06-2018, 11:27 PM

My ex is 13 years younger than me, I'm 40.
We broke up a year ago. She's still married but separated, and has a kid.
I have her number but she deleted and blocked me I think. I have her work email address. I know where she lives.
When we broke up she said she stopped feeling anything for me - which in PUA language means she lost respect because I acted negative and weak over a few months, - but before that she was head over heels for me.
I don't know if I should email her just keeping it friendly and asking for some information relating to our jobs, just one or two lines keeping very neutral. Then if she replies just say thanks and leave it. Then she might feel like I'm not interested in her anymore because I didn't try to ask anything else of her to do with us and our relationship. Then after a month I could email again and say i've been thinking and would love to catch up for a coffee, and go from there.
Obviously the best way would be to bump into her somewhere and seduce her in person but without stalking her or something that ain't gonna happen as we live in London.
Wondering if anyone has any tips? I do realise it's a very long shot.
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