This is a hodgepodge of dogmatic pua nonsense. In your analogy phones buy people. Lol.

Emotional intelligence is the capability of individuals to recognize their own emotions and those of others, discern between different feelings and label them appropriately, use emotional information to guide thinking and behavior, and manage and/or adjust emotions to adapt to environments or achieve one's goal(s). [wiki]

Emotional intelligence is keeping a slow voice, collected manner when speaking and maintaining eye contact is pivotal. [Blue2018]

One of you is wrong.

Back to that analogy though... You ever gone into a phone shop walked towards a Sony and all the phones in that section laugh at you and turn their backs? No. It's a dumb analogy in a million ways.

Then you end by making a metaphor to hunting which is nothing like shopping in a bizarre store where phones buy you.


Peace,

kowalski