I hope her first sex ever wasn't such an awful disaster and that she'll have better sex ever in the future.

Leave her in peace to recover from that event. Even if it had gone better, the advice to not contact her again would be the same. You contacted twice. The next move for your relationship is hers not yours. She might still get in touch.

Your next move is work on yourself and go chat more girls.

You are also very young, right? Why are you having erectile problems in bed naked with a, presumably, hot, slim, 18 year old piece of ass? That really needs addressing. It's not ok.

Why did you feel the need to tell us that you eventually came? The perspective from which someone tells their story is very revealing. This is how it comes across... It's super linear. Get girl, she's more or less a virgin (you don't care), she's on her period (you don't care), the sex is fumbling (you don't care), you make sure to achieve the goal of ejaculating during copulation so now she has your jizz in her which was not part of the agreement (you don't care), what was the sex like for her (you don't care). If that's how you are going to be having sex, pay prostitutes.

Well, unfortunately, it almost definitely won't be the worst sex experience she'll ever have.


Peace,

kowalski