Touch
Are you touching them from the very start? Being physical and forward? I'd say no or not in a confident comfortable way.
kowalski is better at explaining it than me but if your not touching them from the get go and being generally playful, there won't be a spark.
I'm lucky that I live in in a French speaking city so everybody starts with la bise, a kiss on each cheek. Contact barrier broken. This works well because now whenever I meet a girl (unless in a business setting) I give 2 kisses usually with a slight embrace.
In a dating setting it's very easy here to let a touch linger on their arm and caress them as I pull away in a totally natural manner. Sometimes if I feel there's mutual attraction I'll drop my hand straight down to hers.
Hope that helps.
Good luck & stop counting
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